On a regular basis, my husband tells me I'm worthless because the house isn't emaculant all the time. I have a disease that leaves me practically crippled most of the time and physically cannot do the things he expects me to do all the time. I try but it just never seems good enough. He doesn't work full time and doesn't do much around the house to help me out. But he is constantly putting me down and critisizing everything about me. Is this normal or is he being abusive? I feel like he's stripping me of my selfesteem.
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I do not mean that you should accept the unnacceptable. Rather you should be loving from a position of power not clinging from a position of servility. Find strength within yourself to be above his pettyness, to be warm when he is cold, and calm when he is not. Stop participating in this negative feedback cycle and establish a new, positive one. His issues and yours are each in your respective minds; this is a subjective war of opinion and perspective and you've let him dictate the terms so far. You are not a worthless person and he is not a put upon husband at his wits end. He may have reasons to be stressed and irritable, however in the face of a loving, positive relationship, such hardships are the price he should willingly pay to be with the woman he loves.
he shouldnt have married u only to make himself feel better wtf ur spouses like my mum when she needs someone to be mad at