On a regular basis, my husband tells me I'm worthless because the house isn't emaculant all the time. I have a disease that leaves me practically crippled most of the time and physically cannot do the things he expects me to do all the time. I try but it just never seems good enough. He doesn't work full time and doesn't do much around the house to help me out. But he is constantly putting me down and critisizing everything about me. Is this normal or is he being abusive? I feel like he's stripping me of my selfesteem.