i hear the way to get used to them is start with looking a pictures of them, when you are able to look at them without feeling panicky you look at a live one, then after awhile you put one on your arm for a second, then the thing is to leave one crawling on you for awhile, it sounds easy but it might be like jumping out a plane, its that first step that's a doozie
Make a good memory out of them. Banana spiders are awesome. They are big and beautiful with huge webs, but you can be certain they're not going to jump out at you.If there is any spider that can turn your fears around, it is the banana spider. Just don't let that be the one to crawl on you.
Well, there is one way to stop being scared of spiders, but you're not gonna like it. What you do is, you go to a pet shop (one that sells pet spiders)and let them put a tarantula or something on you for a while. I've seen people do this before, and they say it works.