Until I was 21, every female friend I had was trustworthy. I moved and had to make new friends. One "friend" was very abusive to me, playing manipulative games & eventually physically hurt and later stalked me. I finally got away after about a year of this and changing numbers and locations. It only happened with this one person. IS it normal for me to be afraid of most women to the extent that I actually haven't made any new female friends since?