Until I was 21, every female friend I had was trustworthy. I moved and had to make new friends. One "friend" was very abusive to me, playing manipulative games & eventually physically hurt and later stalked me. I finally got away after about a year of this and changing numbers and locations. It only happened with this one person. IS it normal for me to be afraid of most women to the extent that I actually haven't made any new female friends since?

You are rationalizing the fear by subconsciously telling yourself that all new friendships will end badly, because the old ones did not and the one new friendship you did get managed to sabotage your life.