I am a 19 year old male going on 20. I never had a gf, a date, a first kiss, or even got laid. When I was in high school I was looked at as the wierd kid. I never had that many freinds and everyone treated me like shit. I never was a dick to anyone. Every day I see assholes that get all the woman. The same basterds that bullied me. Do girls like these kind of people. Do they want men that get respect. The only woman i Have ever talked to that wasnt family were the ones that made fun of me. I have people ask me do you have a girlfreind yet. It get very pissed off when they ask me that question. My sister will be married this summer. My cousins are married or have girlfreinds. What woman is going to want a unatractive virgin that has no dating experience. I have nothing to give a woman for them to like me. It seems now to have a love life you need moeny, good looks, and a big dick.
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Just because you percieve yourself negatively through all those things does not mean that somebody else will. We all judge ourselves much harsher than what other people would.
All those people who have bullied you are not any better than you are, or any worse either. People can change; and so can you. If there are things which you really do not like about yourself and can be changed, think about whether or not it is worth changing yourself just so you could be liked by girls who might not notice you.
By comparing yourself to other men, you are digging a deeper hole for yourself. Accept yourself the way you are. This will directly make of you a more confident guy.
Look at your horrible past as a blessing. Going through so much at a very young age is tough. This made you feel the way that you feel now, and can also be something that gives you strength to progress further.
Be strong, and constantly reassure yourself that better days are to come. If there is a girl that you like, ask her out. You never know what that girl could have been through in her life.
BTW, the penis size, money & all that are great, but they don't last... getting spoiled gets old if that's the only thing a girl is after. Besides, do you really want someone like that? Nah, trust me not all of us are that shallow.
I also think most ladies would agree with me that men who are confident and charismatic are the sexiest. It's all about knowing yourself and being comfortable in your own skin.
I am so much more turned on by intelligent, confident men than by a hot dumb guy.
You also have to look in the right places. You won't find people who value character in a bar. There are good women out there who I am sure would love to spend time with you. Cut out the negative people in your life and replace them with new ones. (Easier said than done). We al have to clean house once in a while and it sounds like you have a lot of garbage laying around. Hang in there.