Well I wanted to know if it is normal to cover for my cousin we used to be so close him and i. But not much any more. But I always lie to my mum and family and say that I just saw him or make up phone calls that I was on the phone to him and stuff and pretend that he was ill.Because she wonders where he has been and why he doesn't come around much any more. because he used to be over heaps. When my dad past away and gran 2 weeks of each I needed him a lot for help and I did not want to be here any more he was sared about what I would do to myself he tried so hard to help me but he was only 14 and i was 15 i think i scared him away under the sircumstances of evverything, i am now 20 turning 21 in December and he is 19 turning 20 in October and things aren't really the same, according to his older sisters they say he still loves and cares for me but won't return my calls or messages, i did this because i didnt want people to think he didnt love me or my family anymore, and this made it look like nothing had ever happened between us. - what should i do?