I was raised in a skinny family if you gained a little weight they would make fun of you and if they see big people out in the world they would make jokes so I was raised not to like them I meet some but they seem needy and they complain about everything most girls do but I guess I see it different when its a big girl big guys are funny tho and outgoing I think it was the way I was raised but have you ever just disliked a certain body type I feel like they could maintain there weight and get jobs and eat less and smell better I dont try to dislike them but I was just kinda raised that way

1) Take responsibility for your thoughts and actions. "I was raised this way" is a pitiful excuse to be hateful.
2) Don't assume that being overweight and being jobless have anything to do with each other.
3) Don't assume that people who are fat got that way because they are lazy and don't take care of themselves. Yes, a lot of them ARE fat because they are lazy and eat poorly but in which universe does anyone have the right to judge someone without knowing anything about them or their lives? Not this one.
I understand not wanting people to be lazy and not care for themselves but to judge someone's character based off of their body type? Stupid. I'm not exactly attracted to fat women, in fact, some of them do literally nothing for me, but that doesn't give either of us the right to tell them that they deserve to be disliked for their appearance.
Make an attempt at least? Pound on any kind of puntuation symbol as you type or something...
See where I'm going?
Cut the crap, we're all human. End of story. Tell your family to get a life.
Instead we have people telling everyone "you're ok, it's everyone else's fault." Look at the animal kingdom, how many fat ugly, diseased tigers do you see out there? Nature eliminates the weaker organisms that cannot compete.
We humans, we keep kids with downs syndrome, conjoined, the genetically diseased, we allow stupid, poor and fat people to breed like rats and then society is stuck fixing them or taking care of them.
I blame religion largely for spreading immortality, arrogance and elevating stupidity over intelligence. It's because of religion that society is such a mess.
Still, some people dislike certain body types. There are many harsh jokes and insensitive remarks aimed at small men, skinny men, ultra-skinny girls ("skeleton-like models" and other offensive terms), it would be improbable that fat girls should be the only body type which is not disliked by other people.
I do not say that fat people should be humiliated or hurt by other people. No way. I just want to say that sometimes the trend can be reversed and there might be this double standard: making fun of skinny people is OK and funny but making fun of obese people is rude. This double standard IS a problem and it should not be accepted by those who defend political correctness when it comes to body shapes.
But I do still have a lot of friends that are fatter and I still adore them, it's just that when they complain about gaining weight while stuffing themselves with a big Mac, it kinda peeves me off.
Although, I've got to say, I've met some extremely gorgeuous fat girls. Their figure isn't so great, but their faces are model beautiful.
Actually I feel we all understand your point. Fat chicks don't arouse you sexually. Its just that you needed to word it better.
To tell you the truth, I'm not into fat women either. Plus my family also made light of their condition (ie Red Alert! Fat girl in highway skirt, quickly abort mission Lol) But then again I think most of us are able to speak their mind more around the family, trusting that others will understand our inappropriate behaviour as joking or making light of a situation. I mean who hasn't been racist or sexist or just down right rude to others just by their appearance, behind closed doors?
If I said. "No wonder junk foods are so popular, look at that fat chick trying to impress her pimp lover, she'd have to be black and walking a dark street at night for a blind man to think she's hot!".
Pretty sure I included every inappropriate illegal despicable wording there, BUT to your family this may be all ok. (Lol, I just re-read what I wrote :D).
Anyway, some people are turned on by 'over weight ladies', not me; but that's just personal choice, my Mom and Dad is not to blame for it :)
Oh and I like NeuroNeptunian's comment.