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Is it Normal To Fantasize About Children?
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Hello, I am a kindergarten school teacher and I was wondering is it normal for an adult to have sexual fantasies that involve doing things that are illegal to children? I am not posting this for shock value or to be funny, I am seriously wanting to know if this is normal.
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It's always difficult to judge the "normality" of sexual fantasies, as it's rare to find people who are completely honest about them.
I suspect that more people have fantasies about children (or at least underaged) than they care to admit. That said, it may not be "normal" but you're certainly not the only one.

Now, this holds only if you maintain a healthy distance between these fantasies and reality. If you doubt your ability to maintain that control, then you should probably seek professional help; if your career provides too much temptation, you should change it.
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I have fantasies of hurting people like u. Like burning you. Really bad! or cutting you. Really deep!!! We should hang out sometime that would be delightful!
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Get a new job


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I am of two minds.

NO! I do not believe it is Normal. I have very few sexual no nos but things involving children is up there.

But... I have always maintained that THOUGHTS are not inherantly wrong. To Imagine something is not to act on it.

I am trying to be objective here but the fact that you Work with children makes it difficult.

Might I suggest that you try and find a different line of work.

Alcoholics, some of them, keep a full bottle around to test willpower... But if THEY slip up it is usually only themselves that they hurt.

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is it fuck!
don't ask if its normal or not when you know the answer
its blatantly wrong and even when you do think about it keep it to yourself
selfish arsewipe
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I'm afraid I don't have enough information to go on.
Could you post some pictures for me?
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it's perfectly normal. I am that way myself.

But I'll tell you this: whatever you do, don't hurt them. I'm not saying don't do sexual things with them (here, anyway), but just don't hurt them. You see, I don't see it as wrong for you to have sex that isn't physically harmful with them as long as they are willing, but if you desire to do things you know would harm them: DON'T. Because that would be a horrible thing to do.

Now, on a more practical note: don't do it. You'll end up in jail, as those kids are likely to tell their parents. The best thing you can do, if you're wanting to fulfill those fantasies is get a daughter, or even better, a wife that's into it as well and a daughter. Now, your daughter still must be willing, otherwise you're raping her, and you still must not do anything that brings her physical harm, but it would be an easy way for you to fulfill your desires without as much risk as you'd encounter with someone else's child. Of course, the best, safest, most legal, and easiest thing for you to do is to fap to lolicon, fantasy, and, when people finally realize that censorship is wrong no matter what it is you're censoring and legalize it, CP.
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i agree, you are walking on a narrow ledge there. U work with children, yet you want to have sex with them. Whatever you do, dont ever act on it! If you do, you will mess your life up. To be safe, i would quit teaching. Its too easy to slip in that position
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You said it yourself! You FANTASIZE about doing kiddies. Big difference between fantasy and reality.
I've had all sorts of fantasies, and yes that does include kids. ,it doesn't mean that im going to act on all of them.
Word of advice, "DONT" . Kids these days are ,or should be taught that nobody touches them, and i have told a lot of children i know that ...if anybody tells them to keep a secret or they will be in trouble ,they must come and tell any other adult the secret, and that they get a reward if they tell the other adults... I know, its not great, but it does keep the kids alert.
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It is normal to have the thoughts, however it is not normal to act upon them. I think you should find a new line of work also.
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I think its normal, I am a teacher too, and sometimes i fantasized about my students (age 13 to 18 girls), I think it happens to many many people
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