So I'm 36 soon to be 37. I have been on many dates with many men. So they aaaaallll feel that after time passes intimacy should happen sooner than I want. ALTHOUGH I know I want to make love, I find myself running from them because I know that after sex I will lose interest because of the younger women that are out there. I mean when I am on a date I stear away from sexual conversation. I always wear a suit or activewear depending on where we chose to go on the date....so I'm never leading them on. The dates are usually at a park, at the gym, horseback riding, at a camp site for hiking fishing and canoeing, or at a nice resturant.