Sounds like she may have struggled to find a place for you in her own mind that was understandable for her, and now she has and she wants you to know about it.
Perhaps because you dress like a man, she's assuming you want to be a man. She probably thought she was giving you the ultimate compliment, but really it was insensitive.
I have a close female friend that is straight but likes to dress in men's clothing as well. She gets a crazy amount of flack from people, most assume that she's lesbian.
Perhaps because you dress like a man, she's assuming you want to be a man. She probably thought she was giving you the ultimate compliment, but really it was insensitive.
I have a close female friend that is straight but likes to dress in men's clothing as well. She gets a crazy amount of flack from people, most assume that she's lesbian.