I don't know why I'm posting this but I feel it necessary to say something now. I just found out today that Mike just divorced from his wife, literally about 3 hours ago...so...the truth is, my suspicions about her weren't that crazy after all. He had found out that she was talking to her ex-boyfriend again on Facebook and had planned to meet up with him this weekend (the same day Mike and I had planned to go to a concert). Clearly, this is terrible, he's lost his wife and now his kid's may not grow up in a normal home, and that's a terrible thing that I feel really bad about (I loved those kids). But...had I stayed a bit longer on some of those days, I know something terrible could've happened. If I hadn't stayed away...who knows. And right now, I can't help but feel as if something is washing over me...pride in myself, I don't know...just knowing that I had no part in this happening and that I chose to avoid her, and that I didn't bring this terrible thing about. I have no clue if anyone who commented on this will read this, but I want to thank the few of you who gave encouraging words. But...I'm not happy. This is a very bad thing and I feel so bad for Mike right now. It's all very confusing, and....I plan on helping out Mike anyway I can. I guess that's all I want to say. I don't know.
Is it normal to feel guilt in a situation involvin...
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