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Is it normal to feel like having a baby while you are still a virgin?
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I'm a 22yrs old lady, I have been dating my boyfrnd for a yr now. we have been in a long distance relationship now couz i had to go and study in a different province. The thing is we agreed on no sex before marriege as we both christians. Lately I have been feeling ready to have his child and I told him abt it and he told me that he is sticking to what he has promised me before which is the no sex thing.
Is it normal for me to feel this way and what can be the cause of this?
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Ghost-of-the-Marlboro-Man
Smoke while you are pregnant.
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Ghost-of-the-Marlboro-Man
*Don't
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I laughed so hard that Violet shūshed me. A+
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Ghost-of-the-Marlboro-Man
Who is Violet? And why aren't you two having a cigarette?
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VioletTrees. We're wifeys.
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Ghost-of-the-Marlboro-Man
You are lesbians with each other? That is great, I respect and love homosexuals. Homosexuals and the smooth, rich flavor of Marlboro.
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Sog
I'm more concerned about you wanting to break the no-sex-thing only because you want to have a child, rather than the no-sex-thing itself.
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My brain hurts after reading this.
But yeah women usually want baby before men so it's normal.
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You're only 22, and 1 year is, in my opinion, a blink of an eye in relationship terms - I wouldn't be confident after only 12 months that my relationship was the secure foundation upon which a family could develop and be sustained.

For one thing, you're a student. Correct me if I'm wrong, but you're probably not financially independent yet - you can't provide for your hypothetical child. You've only been with your boyfriend for 1 year, which is very little time at all, and you're far away from each other which means you have no idea how life would be if you lived together in a family unit. Does HE want a child now? Judging by his response, he doesn't.

You want to give your child the best upbringing possible - so why not wait until you're in a position to do so? Why crash into parenthood blindly instead of waiting and preparing until you and the prospective father of your child are totally ready to give the kid the best. My suggestion is quell your maternal urges and use your head instead, until the time comes when you're both ready (emotionally, financially, physically) to be parents.
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tommythecat
Date for a year without sex hahaha, oh my goodness.

I always test drive before I buy, ALWAYS.
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I don't get that "no sex" thing at all.
It does more harm than good.
Sex is an important part of a relationship, especially in a long distance one.
If you are still a virgin after one year (!) of being together, you are doing something wrong.
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Yes these feelings are natural.

Wouldn't you want to have fun first though?
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skyann
yes these feelings are natral im a virgin and i get these feelings as well yet in my case im not yet old anuf to have a child hope this helps umm it probly didnt but atleast u know that someone else has these feelings as well
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1000yrVampireKing
Most people will have babies in early to late 20s. After 40 years of age a lot of women are not able to produce children anymore. If you are 22 you will be 38 when your child is 18 and a lot of people stop giving a shit about the kid at that point. Not saying it is good and some older adults are too old and grumpy to take care of kids so having some just stress them out.
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You have used a term which divides yourself from other people who also believe in the teachings of Abraham. This also divides these people from people who have other religious beliefs, as well as from people who are not religious. The use of this term might be offensive to some people, whether they are religious or whether they are not religious.

Why are you creating division in society?
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It's possible to be a virgin and give birth.
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Ghost-of-the-Marlboro-Man
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What have you been smoking?
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Just THC.
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@: Dot123
Pure THC? Daaaaaamn.
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