I'm 17, female, and have had the same best friend for about four years. At around the same time that I met her, I started to come out to some close friends and her as bisexual. At first, I thought that I liked this best friend as more than a friend, but I recently realized that I may just feel strongly about our friendship... Is it normal not to know what my feelings are?
Also, I can't tell her I love her. Even as a friend, I can't say it. I can tell people I've known for a few months that I love them, but not her. Usually girls and their friends tell everyone that they love eachother, but I can say it to everyone except her. I think she notices it and gets a little hurt by it, but I still can't bring myself to say it...
Also, I can't tell her I love her. Even as a friend, I can't say it. I can tell people I've known for a few months that I love them, but not her. Usually girls and their friends tell everyone that they love eachother, but I can say it to everyone except her. I think she notices it and gets a little hurt by it, but I still can't bring myself to say it...
i had really deep feelings for her at some point.
i ignored them and blew it off for a few months.
then i met this guy, who now i'm in real love with.
having him, i look back and realize i really didn't have anything for my friend except friendship.
we(friend and i) are so close we hug and gently touch (like hand holding and hair playing) but i really do feel it's like a sister- nothing romantic.
having this new relationship with a man i can differentiate my feelings.
just give it time until you find your definition of true love.