Is it normal to get angry at how many girls he's slept with

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Nobody can change the past. Those girls are over and done with. Besides, if you really love him and the relationship goes well, you could be his first (and hopefully only) wife.

I was the same with my ex gf, she was my first everything too and when she told me she had slept with multiple guys before me, I was angry and sad too. You'll get over it though if you really love him.

How many, he probably made the number up anyway. Guys tend to do that.

I understand why you feel like you do. Ultimately though, wouldn't you be happier that he was honest with you?

You should have found out how many girls he's been with before you slept with him.

Regardless of that, it is normal to feel that way.

I wish he'd been more mature, to know that there are some things that you don't NEED to know! No-one needs to tell their partner unnecessary things that are going to hurt them.

Sometimes it's best not to ask and not to tell.

I'm married more than 20 years and I've never even asked my hubby who he dated, never mind slept with.

Most guys lie about how many they have been with because they don't want to seem like a loser for no one wanting him to begin with. He could also only been attracted to you because you were a virgin and now that he has had you will eventually get bored with you and find another virgin to move onto. Sometimes its not the girl they are attracted to but the conquest. Also you should always know your partners sexual history before sleeping with them. If I were you I would get tested for STD's.

My bf gets mad at me for only sleeping with one other guy in my life, and he was a virgin so I think it's normal. I get insecure to, even just about a kiss. But, you know.. you got to deal, theres no way to change the past right?

What happened before is not relevant - look at the personality from the moment you met to the current day. Good luck