Ok so first a little background I am 21 my boyfriend is not only my boyfriend I have been with him since I was 17 almost 5 years and He is my fiancé as well as sons father. Long story short last year we were fighting really bad and decided to take a break (we live together as well). So he went out and got back with a ex girlfriend and because he found somebody so fast I went and got with someone else as well. From the day his ex began dating him she started talking about wanting his baby and getting married at this time his mother told her not to get to attached because he would end up back together with me. Within 2 months of our break we were back together and everything seemed normal until I started noticing him going off to see her (sneaking around) but I'm not a dummy so it was easy to figure out. Then she finds out she is pregnant with suppossedly his child. Her ex boyfriend and 1st baby's father called my fiancé even telling him he thought the baby was his to begin with. Since then he has stopped seeing or talking to her entirely ( my fiancé) so here we are a yet later the baby has been born and his whole family has COMPLETLY forgotten about my son for that baby which they still have no idea is even his, the kid looks nothing like my fiancé and my fiance refuses her baby to the fullest. Now that my fiancé is in jail they try to use her an her kid to break him and I up telling me all the things they think of her an how much they love her son that my fiancé should be with her just everything you could possibly think of. I don't know what to do I already think of this girl everyday AT THE LEAST once or twice. But his family doing this now that he is in jail is just ridiculous! I have never met any people that would pick a baby that they don't even know is really there family and a psycho girlfriend over a baby who really is there family! To top it all off the girl is the scaredest person I know as well as the biggest showboat actress! She has them believing she is the perfect mom when in all reality if you look on her fb she goes out practically every night and drinks as well as dances on stripper poles! Now I'm no saint but I don't go out EVERYNIGHT and I'd be damned if I would be slutting it up with strippers! She's constantly telling his family that she's better for him then me and just jealous as anything! But when I call her out about what he says about me she calls me childish and real women don't fight?! Last I knew real women didn't lie about a baby to try to trap a man to be with them either because he don't want her! Is it normal I am this upset and letting her get to me as well as honestly have laughed at the thought of her having a painful death? And how should I deal with her as well as his family?