Is it normal to hate my moms boyfriend?

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It has only been a year and it seems like your mum was with him before the split so its normal to hate him

It's completely normal for you to hate her boyfriend, maybe you should try talking to your mom about it or something?

but if you hate him so much then just have hope, maybe they will break up or something sooner or later.

fuck him you don't need this kind of shit in your life....
make his life hell ... but no matter what happened don't let your mother know that you fuckin' hate the fucker...coz when she dose she will prefer the dick over you believe me, ask any bitch in here......
MAKE HIM PAY!!
He's the reason you parents divorced in the first place...

Completely normal and also it is common for children of divorce/separations to resent new members who enter into a family, be it adults or other children.

Parents raising children (living with their children) should not be dating anyone after a separation until their children reach age 18. Their attention should be focused solely on their children and no one from the outside should be brought into the family structure. Unfortunately, few parents do as I state, mainly to fulfill their own personal pleasures and needs.

You do not have to hide your resentment toward your mother's boyfriend. Tell her how you feel about him if you wish to do so. In the meantime, you don't have to be nice or friendly to this boyfriend of your mothers, but be respectable when you see him.

Sorry about your situation, you and millions of other children go through it. Just deal with it as best as possible for now. It's a shame, but adults need some education on what is right and wrong. Most know no better and the children suffer as a result.

It's normal not to like your mom's boyfriend. it sucks having divorced parents, and i think you just can't stand the fact that your mom is with someone who isn't your dad. you'll probably feel the same way when your dad has a girlfriend. give your mom's bf a chance. he might not be so bad after all.

its normal. im in the same situation except my dad cheated and my mom got her stupid bf a yr later. her bf's psycho ex keeps calling the house and once she even showed up. she kept telling me to tell my mom that she's a cun*, bi*ch, and all that stuff. she keeps telling me that her bf is part of our family and that i should like him. and she invites him to family stuff and invited him to the fireworks. so i didnt go. i hate them both. my dads gf is really nice and i like her. but my mom's bf told me to grow up and to be nice and sh*t like that. she keeps telling me that im selfish and stuff and says that i dont want her to be happy. he's ruining my life. he turned my mom on me, her bf is over here alot, he gave us is old 2 ton microwave when our old one was perfectly fine, and he has a whole drawr of beer in our fridge. hes invading my home. and he acts like he owns the place. my dad asked me what was goin on bc he knew somethn was bothering me so i told him cause i hate keeping secrets, so i told him and he called mom. then mom called me and started yelling that i was a tattle tale and a snitch and everything. i hate them both.

thanks for all of the adive it really helps

my mom has had at least 3 boyfriends since she got divorced. She's a w#0re because she fcuked all of em. I hate all of them, im smart i got them to break up with her. I shot blow darts at em that had salt petre on the tip so they couldn't fcuk my mom then i hacked my moms E-mail and wrote mail revealing that she was cheating on all of them. Now, thats taking it to the extreme, but it worked. IF YOU do something like that plan it out.

I'm srry about that. I was tryin to give u ideas on how to make em break up.

Yes it is normal to hate your moms boyfriend. Talk to your mom about it. If she's a good parent she'll undertsand if shes a bi7ch then she'll say "stop being so selfish (name) i love him and u should love (and or respect) him
if you dont like it go live with your father." exact words of what my mom said... cept my mom was drunk at the time so she threw something at me when i walked away. If you absolutely can't live with it anymore move in with your Dad and his GF.

Again, Yes it is normal to hate ur moms BF.

Hey, lemme tell you I had an identical situation happen, almost,lol! Well, my parents got divorced when I was 4.And a few years after...my mom met a complete asshole and stayed in the relationship for 6 fucking years! And I hated him...but now everything is alright with my mom's new BF. So if he is an ass to you..tell your mom about it. But..Like MM said..if he seems okay..give him a chance..cuz you might actually like him.

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