I think that I will try to speak to them when I calm down but they're always lovely and talk reasonably to me, it's just when I'm not there they are so abusive to her! They obviously weren't expecting me to walk in and witness it but I have heard it over the phone :o(
I know she's certainly not the perfect parent but it's like kicking a dog when it's down. They don't realise the hurt they're causing bc of what they are doing and she could so easily have died. It seems like bullying and now one at 15 is coming home drunk and hanging with a really bad crowd. I just wish they could be more adult.
Thank you anyway, it's definitely worth a try. Any more crap outa em and they'll have to come and stay with me ;o) that'd make em appreciate her!!!
It's a real shame to hear they're acting that way. I'm sure you'll put them in their places, it sounds like they really need it! Hope it all gets sorted out soon, wish you all the best! :)
I know she's certainly not the perfect parent but it's like kicking a dog when it's down. They don't realise the hurt they're causing bc of what they are doing and she could so easily have died. It seems like bullying and now one at 15 is coming home drunk and hanging with a really bad crowd. I just wish they could be more adult.
Thank you anyway, it's definitely worth a try. Any more crap outa em and they'll have to come and stay with me ;o) that'd make em appreciate her!!!