IIN to hate watching people pour tea into teacups with saucers,and to hate the sound of the tea being poured,and watching people be polite and careful about it? Especially when they are sitting around a table and being 'sweet'. IIN i want to go nuts, aand have to contain myself,as i hate that it.s so normal?

Do you ever cook or bake? And how do you manage filling a bowl with food?
I do make tea at home, but chuck a teabag into a mug , boling water and some milk and usually spill a bit of the milk by mistake which makes me feel a bit better. It;s not normal...
Yes I am weird. :o) I get what you are saying re: wine pouring - that one kind irritates me as well,and I have occasionally wanted to go NUTS watching wine being poured but not quite as much as tea pouring.
Tea kettles are dumb. xD
If I saw a table cluttered up with all that nonsense you just listed, I'd scrape it all off into the floor with my forearm, (if it's a wooden table leave the wood exposed, if anything else drape a plain table cloth over it), plop a big pot of iced tea in the middle, and set mason jars all around. XD