You're not a loser. You're trying to help someone without any gain to your own self. Quite the opposite to a loser in my book. To me, a loser is someone who takes anything they want and doesn't even appreciate it. They are the wasters who are only selfish, not you who tries to help. You're much better than that.
This is when I step in and tell you that you aren't a loser. You don't need a partner to achieve, you don't need dates to achieve, you don't need sex to achieve.
Don't call yourself a loser for nor experiencing those things.
You don't need a partner to achieve, you don't need dates to achieve, you don't need sex to achieve.
Don't call yourself a loser for nor experiencing those things.