Years I have not shared, but recently, told my man about my fetish for/of nazis - mainly being dominated and tortured by.
Being I'm a native german, he said he was not surprised and has even tried learning german to be mor authentic in role-playing.
While I appreciate his willingness and interest - I am still troubled as to why I have this want. So is this normal? Especially interested in feedback from other native germans!
Being I'm a native german, he said he was not surprised and has even tried learning german to be mor authentic in role-playing.
While I appreciate his willingness and interest - I am still troubled as to why I have this want. So is this normal? Especially interested in feedback from other native germans!
As long as you don't start having urges to slaughter minorities, particularly jews, handicapped individuals, homosexuals and gypsies... Clearly it's the foreign nature and military harshness/cruelty imposed by such people that pleases you, and not the genocide which they helped to commit.
I've complete trust of my partner, which I agree is very important.
Being german has added to my guilt for such fantasies,yes. However does not mean I would have 'urges to slaughter minorities'!
How long have you had this fetish?
Did you also experience guilt/shame? If so:
What helped you move past these feelings?
Has your partner been accepting of?
Thanks for your time!
I'd reccomend it to you, but of course Mel Brooks is Jewish, plus it's a comedy and laughing is forbidden (verboten) for anyone who has anything to do with anything German.
*tapping forehead*
2. You put a post like that on a website like this and expect not to be made fun of? Seriously? You are the one who brought your heritage/nationality into this.
3. I have a great deal of respect for folks who try to transcend the stereotypes that define who they are. As a German, your sense of humor is typically lacking, just as I predicted, then you go on about nazis? How boring and predictable. Let me guess, your occupation is BMW mechanic.
4.Why are you coming here for validation? As long as you're not hurting anyone else with your fantasies, go live your life. Most fetishes/sexual fantasies are not considered normal by society, yet large groups of folks participate in these activities. Go do your thing!!!
My mistake, so I apologize, as how could you understand something so complex?
Your most sarcastic apology is accepted. In turn, please forgive my inability to realize the cavernous depths of your psyche and soul.
Let me ask you this? You claim a German heritage, why nazis? Why not the Khimer Rouge, Mussolini fascists, or any of the other evil folks that have walked the face of the earth? If you ponder this, you may conclude that you are simpler than you claim to be. An everyday masochist using your own ethnicity to act out your fantasies. How boring and predictable.
PS I still don't know what a spinner is!!!
As for the definition of spinner; I assumed you to have a knowledge of german, due to your use of 'verboten'.
I would love to visit Germany, mostly to try and top 350k/h legally on the road!!!
The one thing I would never do while visiting Germany is bring up anything to do with nazis. Besides being very rude, such a thing would tap into a terrible and guilty past, and the current residents have nothing to do with that.
Back to your question to me. If you acknowledge that you are pre-programmed and have no control of your sexual proclivities, why make a big thing of it?
From what I've garnered, your problem is that you have a hard time reconciling the terrible deeds of the nazis with your own guilty pleasure derived from acting out these fantasies. (that and you're also guilty of having no sense of humor further perpetuating that German stereotype, but I digress)
Coming here to ask the public if that's normal is highly abnormal. Maybe you should reach out to the nazi-based BDSM community if there is such a thing. If there is, I probably won't be attending the meetings.
As you have stated this act "turns your key", and you are performing your fantasies behind closed doors among consenting adults and not bothering anyone else. So get on with it already.
In case you're wondering, I have reserved judgement and have not voted on your poll yet. I'm leaning towards abnormal, but so are lots of things. I don't put chocolate sauce on my pizza, but that doesn't make it wrong or right, just a matter of taste. Someone out there does, this does not make them a bad person.
...And get a sense of humor already.
If you've never been to germany, it is a must to visit. I've traveled extensively, and nothing compares (perhaps a bit biased)
Contrary to belief, there are speed regulations on many sections of the autobahn.
I can agree with your assessment, regarding the guilt factor, thus a partial reason of my questioning. However, I've been applauded on my sense of humour, although can, at times, be a bit dry.
I'm unaware of any nazi bdsm group, especially where I currently reside :) would be splendid if there were. *lewd thought*
In any case, been a pleasure.
Tschuess - goodbye :)
I travel for a living. I have no control over where I go, and many places are just awful to visit (Pakistan stands out in my mind), but it also gives a perspective on the world that a tourist will never see. On the other hand I celebrated last new year in Buenos Aires, and that was fantastic....and no I didn't spot any nazis there.
If you live in Germany, you should probably keep your situation you described to yourself. I'm sure it wouldn't be well recieved there.
I'm aware about the speed restrictions on the autobahn, but those have never stopped me anywhere else in the past!!!
I'm glad you've someone to act out your fantasies with in a safe manner. I'm also glad you can deal with my wiseass comments. Maybe you do have a sense of humor after all...
Auf Wiedersehen
Some of my most memorable travels have been 'off the beaten trail', never to pakistan though - the 'vices guide to travel' advised against. Buenos Aires, however is on my list of hopefuls.
Currently, I live in the states, so not an issue - not that we parade around the house goose-stepping and all, now that would be embarrassing! And when we visit my family in germany, we leave all our paraphernalia safely at home!
I've always relished a good debate - keeps the mind sharp and your 'wise-assed' comments made for a delightful challenge as well as provided for an insight into my wanton-filled psyche.
You're lucky to have a partner who's so willing, but I do hope that you two have a safe word for each other.
I can see how some might consider this disturbing, but you two should be fine as long as both of you are able to consent, willing and able to communicate any potential issues that might arise.
Yes, i am grateful to have a partner who is open to my umm :) and safe words are always used.
I hate the violence though. Check out the German actor Thomas Kretschmann. He would probably turn you on with whatever fantasy you think about relating to Nazi stuff.