is it normal to have urges to destroy stuff

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It's perfectly normal for you to have such aggression. It's part of becoming a man, but you will have to do your best to control these feelings or you'll turn into an asshole. Just relax and listen to some Bob Marley.

U should find a more constructive outlet for this desire. i would say try ripping paper but ur impulse sounds much stronger than this. Maybe u should try doing the opposite of destroying things and try the other extreme - creating things -sculpting sounds like its perfect for u it is a good stress reliever and you can build it up and knock it down as often as u like. Also if u can appreciate the hard work and time put into making ur own creations i think u would be less inclined to destroy things

Wanting to destroy stuff on a constant basis indicates an anger management problem. You need help to control this, it's not normal to want to destroy and smash stuff up.

dude get into demolition or construction, if you have so much energy.

Sounds like me, if something annoys me i T*at it one!

ok meny people have tht same erge

I used to work at a computer shop for a couple of years, and every few months or so we'd take some old, fried junk computer out back and take turns busting it up with a baseball bat, just for fun.

I think it's perfectly normal, as long as it's controlled and not actually busting anything important or belonging to anyone. Of course, don't hurt anyone either.

totally normal mate, i used to use smashing stuff to control my anger, i would get so mad i wouldnt know what to do, started punching walls, which DO NOT DO!! iv broken pretty much every bone in my hand and struggle to move it properly nowadays, but smashing other stuff up is fine as long as its urs.
i threw my cd player out my window once cos the cd kept skippin, but nothing wrong with the cd!! then kicked it shitless, felt damn good after!!lol