For a long time now, i have liked people out of my race. But until this year i haven't got the confidence to date one. Well finally this boy i have been liking for like 2 years asks me out and now we're dating. But my friends and other people at my school thin that i am nasty for dating him. Why is that? i mean just because he is a different color than me shouldn't make a difference. Am i normal?
Your school is freaking racist, don't be like them, be like us Canadians, D I V E R S I T Y !
Just a curious question, where are you from? Usually different places with different communities have different views on two different coloured people dating.
I never use to understnad what people see in other races till I went out with someone from another race. I realised that personality has a big impact. So if you find someone who treats you right, then whats stopping you from being with them. Part of the human race is to like and to be liked, your human, so your normal.
It's strange because as children we are taught to like every color in the crayon box. to accept everyone for how they are and never judge them on their outside. but as we get older a lot of the people around us tend to build these social borders, that contradict everything we have been taught. don't forget that like so many others have.
where ever you go, you will inevatibly meet people with small minds, who judge people by what they are, where they are, or materialistic things. don't sell yourself short, or compromise you integrity or sense of character. because if you let others shame you into over looking others for any reason, you may just miss out on someone who could turn out and be your bestfriend, or love of your life.
Both my parents are of different races, ( my mom is Chinese, and my dad is Ukrainian/Danish )and i'd like to think my brother and I turned out fine. Your friends should be happy for you. =)