People put pressure on me to "grow up" and "get a job" but college is really hard and stressful especially full time. I'm only 21 and people keep giving me crap about it and call me a leach? Is this just my parents and brothers or does most of society consider it "leachy" to do this? I have had jobs here and there, and I also struggle with depression, ADHD, and social anxiety and things have been tough with me because I've made a lot of friends and girlfriends who seemed like nice people and pretended to be for a long time and then I found out some of were using me and some of them were just bad people to there core. It's been really difficult for me to move on because I had a good childhood with lots of nice friends and a lot of them are too busy to visit or have moved away? Shouldn't people understand (especially my parents) why I'm not as energetic and don't want a job on top of school?!?! It really makes me sad because I don't know what do about it because my parents and brothers are basically the only people I can still talk to and I still trust. Does anyone know what to do in this situation?