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Is it normal to lose my moral sexual boundaries when I travel?
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When I travel, it seems that just my arrival at the airport gets the inner horn-dog primed. When I travel, which is 8-10 times a year for business, I find myself purposefully traveling to places with the best access to clubs, bars, seedy-districts, etc. Is it normal for my regular sexual boundaries to drop altogether when I'm away from my hometown?
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O MY GOSH I thought I was the only one! I'm such a whore on vacation (;
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OMG, no kidding, huh? at home such a good boy. Not on the road. i'm safe and all, but the fact is i connect with dudes pretty regularly.
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connecting with dudes is not only good but titillating to have a guy your sexual with
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This may sound GROSS ... but I have to ask ... Has hubby ever asked you to "bring home" goodies for him to lick out of you?

I have ... and did ..

kinkymood
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hullandeasy
hello yes my hubby has brought objects home to put inside me so he can feel and lick me
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Married couple from South Africa would love to play online dare with you guys! Wetemke at gmail dot com
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I wish I could meet up with you! nice 7 inch cut cock
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Sorry I years to late... but not only is it normal it releases all the tension
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Hey ... I went into a bar in Dayton after a long hard day. Only one person there. Middle age attractive and educated woman. Eventually I offered to buy her a drink .. and asked .. what brings you to Dayton.

Her replay ... I just come here to get laid.

we did. but once in a lifetime
KINKYMOOD
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Yup! Its the simple fact that its away from home. Away from consequence really. As long as your using protection you don't have to worry about really bumping into people. And also no risk of commitment. I find myself like this when I travel.
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Your so so lucky
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Well..when I am alone at home, I feel like to seduce someone, I become really horny at times. I feel like to seduce my female cousin or my fast friend.I feel to be in contact of such a friend who is just friend for kinky act, with whom, I just can practice wild and kinky play :)
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This makes me sad :(

Hope none of you guys are in monogamous relationships.
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My morals go where I go. I stick with them because I want to. I don't judge anyone else either.
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For most it seems, it is hard to do anything they are really proud of later if they are over 100 miles away from home! Good luck with your choices.
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The fact that you say you lose your "moral" boundaries tells me that you yourself know it's wrong. Normal might be what all of these people have said..but you still know it's immoral. But hey, have fun..that's what it's all about right?
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Have you ever gone to the local hotel bar near the airport? That's when you know you're looking for trouble. ;)
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@: gizmoid
Yeah all the other horny travelers. Lol
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Always fuck when travel.
But no moral problems for me however becouse my gf dosn't know about it :D
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if your gf don't know then get yourself a penis he'll have you glad you did
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Well, you don't want to shit on your own doorstep, do you?
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Why not? there is always soap and water
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Depends.... on so many things. Are you cheating? If you are single then I think its normal - no one knows you there, so you cant get a bad rep.
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yes, miss claire...cheating.
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Biologically, I think it is normal. Morally, well that all depends on your morals. Maybe you just need to find out whether it bothers you or not, and if so, why. If your guilt lies with your partner, then maybe you should find a different partner who wants the same things? Or maybe you want to be single?
I understand that it may be more complex than that (children, marriage, whatever it may be).
I hope you find happiness whatever you decide to do... without too much hurt to others involved. Good luck!
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thanks miss claire
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:)
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If you cheat it is wrong.period.
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@: Saibee
The question is:is it normal, not is it morally acceptable.
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Been there, done him, didn't get an STD.
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I think it's normal no one knows you, you can feel free to do what ever you want. Or to try something that you wouldn't with a boyfriend because you don't have to worry about feeling ashamed. May have a better sense of confidence
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fun, ain't it?
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There's something about being out of town where NOBODY KNOWS ABOUT YOU. and what happens 'there', stays there. (like the Vegas quote)
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it more fun to do it in your own neighborhood and not get caught
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Normal. And not just sexual, but all morality takes a nosedive when you are away from the people who know you and might judge you.

Vegas is *built* on this effect.
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pretty normal. Being far from home makes you think "why not?". kinda rock n roll attitude :)
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ahhh finally a decent question that isnt just "is it normal to like this guy that i like" or some shit like that. to answer your question, yes it is normal. when you travel, you feel a sense of freedom and anonymity because you realize that there is a small possibility that what you do or who you meet will have any repercussions in your normal life. to put it simply, you wont be going back there any time soon and the people probably wont remember you so who cares what you do as long as you abide by the laws of wherever you are.
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in total agreeance
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Haha there are so many perverts out there! I thought it was only moi! ONLY if I'm single though!
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Damn do any of u women travel to Utah??? Lol
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Normally, wife and I are not too wild when we're at home (I mean we do swing..but always together), but when either of us have to travel, we both go crazy. usually when I travel, I go for men. She is more bi on the road.
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@: ctbiguy
lucky bastard! that's so fuckin' hot. me too, btw. dudes is where i play.
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Wish we could meet. I would love to have a man suck my cock. Especially a nice guy like you.
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@: ctbiguy
good for you!
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@: ctbiguy
funny thing ... on the road .. I am totally bi and mostly oral.

kinky mood
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You need to find out who you are, the person you really are. That person won't change just because they're on a business trip in unfamiliar surroundings. If you're asking the question you're asking, you sense that you want to be the same person--decent, moral, honest, open, no secrets--everywhere in every situation. That's a very great moral goal.
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When I went somewhere else I acted different and felt like someone else, it was AweSoMe! Lol At home I'm totally antisocial but away I'm way more social than usual! ;)
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I have these problems, too. However, as I was being a horn dog (Having Sex at least every two days, Hi-Fives for me :D) I almost got an STD. My doctor said my body was already vaccinated for it, but still... I don't want to get AIDS. So, right now I have a girlfriend, commitment isn't as bad as people think it is.... We get to try different sex positions every night! Not that bad.
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I do this too, When travelling I think it's the excitment and over stimulation of diffrent women,culture ect, It's all fun and games ;)
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I too am very horny on travels especially when i am travelling alone and by road or train
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I am a real bitch when not at home!!!!!
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I have had a couple flings while on trips when I was solo. Just the idea of staying at a hotel makes me exponetially horny now.
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I am a total freak the kind with chain,whip cream and feathers
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Morality is a matter of custom as much as right and wrong. Most of us would agree there are some things that are wrong, but when we try to extend it to sexual behaviour, that's absurd.
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It is not normal!!!!!Is it normal to live 2 lives?No!!You are not normal if you can be 2 different people.One way one time and another way another time.That is a personality disorder.IT IS NOT NORMAL!!
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I responded yes its normal. The phenomenon. But I dint think its the phenomenon you think. These "vacation morals" are your real morals. The others are what you'd like to present perhaps to society perhaps yourself. Inhibition.
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We as a couple, do this together. Very little chance of bumping into someone we know. Pick up people where ever we can and the kink for us is to do the act as close to where we find the person as possible. Toilet, car park, etc. The best to date, was in a bar with just one guy and the barman. I picked the guy up for my wife and the deed was done there and then, with me and the barman enjoying the "show".
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Yeah, it's normal. People don't know you when you're out and about and it's not like you're gonna see these same people again. Just so long as you're not bringing back some nasty social disease
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dytrog
You have the same morals you had when you left home.
But the risk of getting caught is much less.
It's normal if your not in love or satisfied at home. Just practice sex that is safe.
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