I really like girls with personalities that would be considered 'lame.' I like very christian women, who don't curse, and are always happy, they can have fun doing very simple lame things which I don't like, but I appreciate it because they do , these women are a little bit too nice, but not excessively, they can smile and say some lame unmodern phrase with no fear of judgement, they dont drink much, maybe a glass of wine, they donate their time volunteering at charoties or maybe their part of some anti violence orginization, they probably work as a kindergarten teacher. I just loveeee lame, I guess nerdy women.

That's fine if it's what you like... definitely not for me though.
Oh! And they should have an awesome sense of humour. :D
Again, cause I've been around many people that fit this model OP is talking about I found most of them very kind and altruistic. Something many people around could benefit from, that's why.
Of course I'm NOT talking about "god hates fags" idiots..
so, it's totally normal. You should just feel comfortable with whatever you like. Because you like it, period.
With that said, I don't see what not cursing and being Christian have to do with being a happy, caring person. I swear like a sailor, and I still do my part for charity.