Is it normal to be at work while your kids are at school and miss them and look at pics of them and just think of all this fun stuff you wanna do or just spend quality time with them, but as soon as I pick them up from day care and we get home, that feeling goes away and I just want to chill out by myself and do my own thing. Not be bothered. I mean I love them more when they're gone it seems. I think this is normal.?