Is it normal to not attract the ones you genuinely like because...

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I have recently discovered that my "style" is not compatible with the guys i like. For example, youre gothic and you like hip hop guys. Obviously, theyre not going to ever guess you like them because of the way you look. They would guess you like other gothic guys or rocker types. It sucks because you genuinely like those guys but theyll never know. In my case, I look girly and sometimes "glamorous" but I really really really really love skater boys. Behind the girlyness I supposedly portray, Im really not girly AT ALL. Trust I am so messy, my family thinks Im half boy half girl, I have mostly guy friends, I feel weird when Im surrounded by girls cause theyre so loud and girly like omg! and im like huh? oh hi. The only thing is that I like shopping and love clothes. I like looking pretty you know but thats about it. And so, back to the compatible thing, I recently met this skater boy hes so adorable and reminds me of another skater type of guy I used to like. I have these phases where I just want to be with them. But i know he looks at me like this girly girl who's "too mature" to play around. Ahhh idk lol it makes me nuts cause thats who i am! I f*ck around a lot and throws people off sometimes cause they thought i would have manners assuming from my looks. What am i supposed to do? Change the way I look so he can approach me differently? :-(