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Is it normal to not want to date anybody or not to want to have/like sex in anyway? i'm 21 and i have never had a boyfriend..
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I can say I feel the same. I am a female and two times I tried new relationship trying hard to keep it but i couldn´t and it was more difficult and deeper on my side than just a blithe game. But I didn´t see anything interesting on those guys as on guys, anything interesting about dating with them, sharing things, I just didn´t see anything about them, as well as I don´t see anything on anybody else...and I mean I am not snobbish, I recognize people as interesting in general and not according to sex, i can say , oh that girl is really beautiful or yeah that guy is handsome, but i don´t feel any sexual attraction..... and despite the fact I approve the need of relationships and love, I just don´t have a need to start any of mine.
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Ollieo
Sure that's OK.
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@: Ollieo
Of course it is. You can decide! I've got a friend who never had sex with another person and she was so glad about it.
Cheers!
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Of course it's normal. If you don't want it, then you don't want it and that's totally fine :)
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No one's going to force you to have sex. (Well, let's hope not.) It's not a necessity for a happy life. :) Normal.
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arbuter1
It is normal, my neighbor is the exact same way!
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It's your choice. It all depends on preference. If you don't want to, you don't have to.
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543212345
U hv a low sex drive nothin wrong with it
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I'm a male and I hate sex and sexuality in all of it's forms. I am 40 years old and have not had sex in over 20 years. I will never have sex again for as long as I live. If other people have a problem with that the TOUGH! I think that sex is base and humiliating, revolting, absurd, and abusive.
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You have issues you need looking at
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you should at least try it.....I'll be your first....no charge....consider it a favor
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Barney Stinson line!
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I think it IS normal. You might be an intellectually stimulated individual. Like, maybe you consider a man's mind more hot than the idea of having sex with him. This is normal - but sex will come in due time. Some people are just late bloomers :)
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Sex and violence are closely related as they are both arise in the lower brain and are most strongly connected with our animal selves. A world without violence would probably be a world without sexuality.
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It's normal.
First time I had a boyfriend, I didn't like the feeling so I dumped him.
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Amoymoususer are you a priest?
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loekster
i am not an expert but i think youre not yet ready (i am not trying to insult you or something) just think by yourself do i want to or do i not

the important question is that you can life with it or not
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No, this is not normal.
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omg12
It is not normal, i mean some people dont have bf or gf at ur age for whatever reason my mom had her first bf at 22 and whats not normal is that u r 21 and r not interestes in sex u r supppsed to be from about 12 or 13 on i mean at that age most dont want sex but r interested by the time u get to 15u already qant it! Fix it girl!
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And,I'm 50 and never had sex or a girlfriend,and I don't want sex from YOU either.
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I guss u dont have any sexual in u dats not normal
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Normal as can be. Do what is right for you not what others want from you. :)
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No, this is not normal.

Ask yourself why. Maybe, you were raised in a religious environment and believe sex is dirty. Maybe, you are fat or ugly and believe that no man will ever want you, so you avoid rejection by not wanting sex in the first place. Maybe, you have a hormonal imbalance that is affecting your sex drive. Maybe, you were hurt by men in the past, and believe all men are like that. Maybe, you are a virgin, and have no idea what sex is all about. Maybe, you are terrified about the possibility of becoming pregnant. Maybe, you are just not attracted to men, but you abhor the idea of being attracted to women.

Just remember that you are on this Earth because your parents had sex (as did their parents, and their parents' parents, ...). So, you have naturally inherited a sex drive, but something has gone wrong.

Whatever the problem, rest assured that most problems can be solved. It just takes knowledge, time, and effort.
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