Although a person claims they are deeply in love with you, but have no desire to have sex with you anymore...or at least in the near future, how should one react in that situation? He is my husband and I do believe he loves me, the relationship is great besides that one thing...however small it may be to him, it's very big to me! There is nothing I can do or say that will change his mind about the matter. No, he is not cheating or anything like that, you would have to know him to know that is the truth...he is boring, a nerd, very analytical and takes care of his responsibilities...he does things like a clock! While I find those qualities great about him, I need to also feel like I matter or am desired in his eyes! He would rather do the whole hugging and cuddling thing from time to time, but then that's it! I try to make a move, and he stalls, makes up excuses or his body all of suddenly begins to pain him! I am at my wits end as this has been going on for years now. I just can't leave though, we have many years of invested time and it would be ashame to wash it all down the drain. I'll try to hang in a little while longer because I love him so much, but my goodness...I need a release!