Is it normal to not want to seem like a virgin?

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As long as you can pal around with guys I don't think they'll care that you're a virgin. Also, being a virgin is a plus for most guys.

You say :"guys run from virgins".

I say: "you are looking for the wrong guys".

No. Not all guys. I'd rather have a virgin.

So if you're after a guy like me, you'll more likely make him run with your act to appear experienced.

So I'm a 19 year old guy and I feel exactly the same way. I think I'm going to start lying about my virginity. However, not all guys necessarily run. It's a bit of a turn-off but if you don't require too much effort I don't think you'll scare too many off. When you do finally have sex though, you need to tell him. He's going to to be rough with you, and its going to hurt like hell if you don't . But yeah plenty of girls feel like you.

I am not sure what you want to know... Are you interested in sexual techniques which make you seem skillful and sexually experienced during sex or do you want to know what can help you to have an "aura" of sexually experienced woman in general (i.e. before going to bed with someone)? If it is the latter, it is quite difficult to answer your question without knowing the reason why you are still a virgin. I mean, do you back away when guys approach you or is there a problem that they don´t do that?

Maybe you should lose some weight, or stop being such an anti-social dork? If you're open to sex and haven't found some decent guy willing yet, there's something wrong.. Guys love virgins so there's no reason to want to act like you're not one. Best thing about virgins is they probably don't have any STD's which is the scariest part about hooking up with girls (imo).

Why do you want to look like you're experienced? The inexperienced girl that is interested in sex, and wants to be taught about it is a very sweet and appealing character.

The problem with this society is, that it seems everybody has to have sex. I think it's stupid. And btw, like others said here: guys like virgins more, because they're 'not touched' yet, you know? There's nothing wrong with being a virgin! :)

I'd gladly take a virgin over some loose girl :) lol

Don't lie about your virginity :/ it makes you look like a total lame hole. I have a friend who does this, and i'm so embarassed for him. No one gives a fuck if you fuck, fuck.

Virginty is total shit because if your a guy you suck hog anus and if a girl well you haymem hadent been broken by a penis

Watch porn. I never did it but my brother did so once I entered his room and he was watching. You'll be expirienced. Try to masturbate too. But you should know its not a bad thing to be a virgin at 20. I'm the same age (not virgin) and have friends that haven't had sex. My brother lost his virginity when he was 15 me when I was 17 and yes its great, but its not that thrilling. So don't worry. And guys don't always run from virgins. If u r openned to sex how come u haven't had sex?? Find urself a boyfriend and then for birthday gift or something have sex. He'll be happy.

This is ridiculous. What guy runs away from a 20 year old virgin girl that wants to get it on? Do you live in a gay community or something?

I'm 20 too and I'm still a virgin two. But I have been with my boyfriend for six years and some boys don't mind being with virgins