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Is it normal to not want to suck dick...Ever?
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Hi! I'm a virgin. I don't know when I will be ready to have sex but I do know that I don't want to suck dick. My sisters say, that it's childish and stupid of me to feel this way. I just thought it was their opinion but now I'm curious about everyone else. I don't think less of people who do suck dick, I just wouldn't want one in my face and mouth. And also, I wouldn't care if a guy wants to eat me out or not. But me being a virgin..I don't know anything. So, is it normal for me? Will my mind change after one experience?
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Don't let anyone talk you into something you don't want to do. You are entitled to have your own feelings and opinions.
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Thank you so much! You're more understanding than my siblings
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sandnigga
I agree. If you dont want a penis in your mouth then you dont XD haha
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You're certainly entitled to feel however you want, so that's perfectly normal.

Calling it "childish and stupid" isn't very nice, but what I think your sister is trying to say is that young, inexperienced people don't necessarily know what they're going to like later in life. Things can change once you're sexually active with somebody you care about. Maybe you'll never want to give oral, and if so that's fine, but if you do change your mind, you definitely wouldn't be the first person who used to be grossed out by the idea of giving oral who ended up being fine with it.
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It's perfectly fine not to want to suck dick. Some people don't like anal, some people don't like having partners of their own sex, and there's some people that don't like having sex at all.

I didn't like the idea of giving head when I was younger, but as I got older I actually started enjoying it. You might change your mind down the road, but either way, if you don't it's still fine.
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Completely normal. No one has to tell you otherwise. Coming from the perspective of a guy who has "experienced" such things from women, I don't know how they tolerate it. ._.
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Yes I think sucking d. Is gross. I Will never do it.
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cunt_eater
The OP wasnt asking males.
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Crazy sucka !!!!!
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It's normal and trust meach you wouldn't be missing out on anything. I tried it once and it was horrible, since then I let it be known very clearly when I meet someone that it will never happen so don't ask
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Any one remember .David Allan coe
The three biggest lies.
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1. This will only hurt for a little while 2. I'll only put the head of it in 3. I promise not to ever try to cum in your mouth
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It's not abnormal at all, tell your sisters that it's not childish at all and you are free to feel however the hell you want, then say maybe sucking dick is the act of a whore.... just to see their reaction and then say, doesn't feel good being judged hey?
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Everyone likes different things, don't do it if you don't want to. I hate anal, and a lot of other people hate it, but you have people who couldn't live without it. I'm a girl and I love sucking dick so much, so, everyone's different.
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Unfortunately it's normal. It's not enjoyable to have it down your throat that's for sure. These days men choke you on purpose to make you gag and cry. Men are dicks, don't do it if you don't want to .
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its totally normal to not want to suck dick. I know a lot of girls who dont like it and never do it. Blowjob is just a fetish, you dont need to have it. There are also guys who dont like it at all.
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just saying it'll be hard finding a guy happy with this. ALL MEN like getting their dick sucked.
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xfg42
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I don't. It won't even fit in her mouth when I remove the pacifier.
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Cedric_Diggory
I would imagine that sucking a dick would be exactly like eating a drumstick minus the biting and the periperi.
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you shouldn't speculate on things you've never done
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It's ok hon. Talk to me about your fears..
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um....
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yeah ok I'm going to get out of here
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Youll grow out of this mindset eventually. Your hormones havent taken over yet, theyre why we do crazy things like put our faces in each others genitals. You can conscientiously not understand it yet, eventually its gonna hit you like a ton of bricks and things like sucking a dick may likely become something you really look forward to. Dont worry about it, worry about other things, eventually youll grow into it. Your sisters are just giving you trouble because they know youll come around lol. Its nature
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It's normal for YOU because you're a virgin.
For an adult woman it's not normal, in my opinion if an adult woman won't suck a dick she's got issues and will never have a happy relationship long term unless she hooks up only with a guy who also has issues surrounding sexuality.

Sharing oral sex is a very normal and awesome part of an adult sexual relationship.

It's like when little boys see girls and go "Ewwww!" or see adults kiss and go "Ickkkk!" You outgrow that and eventually like the opposite sex.
If you're normal - and I think you are - at some point you will want that cock in your mouth.
Now not all girls want to have the cum in their face or in their mouth. But personally I think that's not normal either. When a guy eats a girl's pussy he gets her juice all over his face and in his mouth every time! (if he's doing it Right!) So personally I think if you want to have a good sexual relationship when you're an ADULT with an active sex life with someone you care for - then you will not only suck it you will taste it and let him cum on you anywhere except maybe your hair or eyes (it stings the eyes).

But for now, yes you're normal and don't do it yet! Wait til you want to, some day. Hopefully you will.
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Thing is, you're thinking about some abstract penis that's just floating around on it's own. But when you encounter a penis for real, there'll be a guy attached to it, hopefully a guy you really like. If you rule out EVER letting a penis touch your mouth, then you're prohibiting yourself from ever finding out if you actually like it. In my experience, a lot of women do enjoy it, so long as it's clean, smells neutral and the guy doesn't try to cram it down her throat. What (I've been told) they mainly enjoy is the fact that they are giving a great deal of pleasure. If the guy just lays there like a lump, it can be just as difficult for the woman to get into it as it is for a man to get into cunnilingus if the woman is silent and completely inert. Hopefully, you will, sooner or later, experience a relationship with a man who is able to freely express just how you're making him feel. If you care about the guy, giving him pleasure will be important to you and you'll probably get a kick out of how you can make him squirm and beg.

As for cunnilingus, all I can say is don't knock it until you've tried it. And don't think that your first experience is inevitably as good as it gets. Some guys are willing to take a lot of time and pay close attention to how the woman is responding, others just go through the motions. If you are fortunate enough to have a guy who really gets into it and you allow yourself to totally get into it, the results can be pretty amazing.

(By the way, I believe the most important thing virgins - of both genders - can do is figure out how their own body responds to different types of stimulation. If you have your first sexual experience without knowing what sort of touch you like, where and how that can change through the arousal cycle, then it's very likely you'll find losing your virginity completely meh at best, and possibly very uncomfortable. Get to know your own body before you allow someone else to mess around with it.)
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It's definitely abnormal not to desire oral sex, but if you had bad experiences with penises before, it's understandable.
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One step at a time. You are a virgin - you need to focus on kissing. Then get comfortable with ass massages and deep tongue kissing. Then as your desire builds even more stuff. Don't worry about cock. If all goes well you'll be sucking it soon enough and it will feel like the most natural dessert in the world.
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ChelseaGonzales
No actually it's not normal but not a big deal.
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