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Is it normal to physically fight your bf?
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--My seemingly perfect bf of 2yrs became addicted to crystal meth when we had a 2 month break up.When we got back together we would get in arguments and i never knew when he was sober like he claimed. When they became intense i would start to hit him(out of anger not purposely)til he hit me bac and we would start to physically fight(he never hit me first). But after we made up i wouldnt mind. I dont enjoy getting hit but IIN to enjoy the fights or at least telling the stories after?

--P.S.(I DO NOT AGREE WITH HIS DRUG HABBITS but it has now been over 3 years and we are sweet and loving towards each other a lot of the time we plan on getting married soon)
Do you think it's normal?
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GotCrabs (38582)
3/12/10
Dont bother marrying a meth addict, its just gunna crash and burn in the future.
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Star1778 (38438)
3/12/10
sounds like you both need help. don't get married until both of you have received some kind of counseling. this is just asking for trouble.
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DucksAndPeaches (38437)
3/12/10
Oh wow! Marry if you want but please dont have children together.
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thehollywood (38552)
3/12/10
I see the point its just the weird thing is idk why it doesnt seem that serious to me but to others it is, and i see why it should be.
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lovelylady17 (38616)
3/12/10
My boyfriend and I are pretty much the same, except we do not do crystal meth. But we do get in crazy fights, in the heat of the moment your so angry but afterwards its pretty funny. I would say its normal but it will lead to him being the dominant abuser. For example my boyfriend will be the first to turn the argument to a physical fight and of course if your like me you will stick up for yourself and fight back.
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EricKeller2 (38626)
3/13/10
Loser's are abusers.. Never forget that. Tell him to get help; if he doesn't. LEAVE.. What is you end up having children and one gets hurt because of his mistake?
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mtnw (38583)
3/13/10
i don't think there is any room in a good relationship for couples to physically fight. whoever throws the first punch or slap is responsible for the fighting.
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beka1ici0us (36656)
3/18/10
i like fighting with my bf to .. but the fact that he hits u back... i mean does he hit u back hard or just a soft hit? if its hard i would leave
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StrangeDuckDude (39580)
7/18/10
Your bf is either a weakling or he's sober, because a girl in an actual fist fight with a normally-strong dude jacked up on meth is going to get hurt, and hurt badly (she's NOT going to enjoy it!!!)
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combatgal856 (13140)
7/18/10
I think its normal. Me and my bf are always physically fighting I usually like provoking him and he is always like 'i dont wanna hurt you'. as long as he stops when you say so and it is not serious then it is normal
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