I'm 19 years old. About 2-3 weeks ago my older brother who is 23 approached me and asked if I would be comfortable with him seeing me naked. I didn't understand at first but once he explained it made sense. I agreed as long as he got completely naked too. He admires my body. I admire his. Nothing's ever happened between us, nobody's ever crossed the line. Is it normal that we do this at our age? And is it going to lead to other stuff?
Even though this is normal, I wish it was more normal in today's world. That's just my opinion though.
I would never let my brother admire my naked body, yuck!!!!!
oh well who am I t judge? I'm in love with my cousin after all
But some families are different when it comes to openness I guess.
But I don't know if I'd consider it normal or not.
it is normal to be curious about other's bodies, and normal to ask someone you trust.
if it were to go further you should set some boundaries. (that would be yuck.)
Can't he see girls that aren't his sister naked? Thats really sick!
My older brother did something of that sort, when we were kids and i think it has messed me up now that im grown.
Brother's are supposed to protect you not try to get into your pants.. That is crossing a line that should not be crossed.
Be very careful is all i can say....
As far as effect on me. I kind of regret it and I don't at the same time. I regret it because it was wrong and I should have overcame my sexual urges. I regret it because every time I see my brother all the events of our vacation flash by in front of me. I regret it because it took me 2 months to stop thinking about it every time I became intimate with other people. I don't regret it, because it was just physical stuff, we are not in an emotional attachment, and I had a very good time. Also because it showed me how much my brother cares about me. It helped me formulate even a stronger relationship with my boyfriend in college and I grew closer to my brother.