I'm a 30 year old guy. I'm still a virgin and I haven't even ever kissed a girl (though I REALLY want to). There's a reason for this though. I've suffered a SEVERE stroke when I was 19, which has put me in a wheelchair. It´s MUCH harder to get a girl then. Before, I was simply too shy to approach a girl.
However, through EXTREMELY hard training, I can now walk again pretty OK! I've been through HELL and back. Can you imagine all the despair, the pain, the frustration? The first time after I took a stroll again after 11 (!) years of PURE misery, I FRANTICALLY cried like a baby for about an hour. I still do sometimes.
Anyway, I have NO experience with women WHATSOEVER (though I´m fairly attractive). I feel EXTREMELY ashamed and embarassed by it, and I sometimes really HATE myself, especially since all my buddies (who have always been healthy) all have girlfriends. I REALLY want a girlfriend too. I would LOVE to have one. I VERY, VERY often dream of having a girlfriend. It´s ALL I´ve ever wanted and I would treat her SO incredibly good. I would love her FOREVER.
Do you think I can still get a girlfriend and lose my virginity to her? I want my first time to be special. And am I normal, or a freak? Personally, I think I´m a freak. I feel I´m a loser, even though I got out of my chair.
However, through EXTREMELY hard training, I can now walk again pretty OK! I've been through HELL and back. Can you imagine all the despair, the pain, the frustration? The first time after I took a stroll again after 11 (!) years of PURE misery, I FRANTICALLY cried like a baby for about an hour. I still do sometimes.
Anyway, I have NO experience with women WHATSOEVER (though I´m fairly attractive). I feel EXTREMELY ashamed and embarassed by it, and I sometimes really HATE myself, especially since all my buddies (who have always been healthy) all have girlfriends. I REALLY want a girlfriend too. I would LOVE to have one. I VERY, VERY often dream of having a girlfriend. It´s ALL I´ve ever wanted and I would treat her SO incredibly good. I would love her FOREVER.
Do you think I can still get a girlfriend and lose my virginity to her? I want my first time to be special. And am I normal, or a freak? Personally, I think I´m a freak. I feel I´m a loser, even though I got out of my chair.
I think after all you went through there should be no issue in getting a girlfriend.
Stop telling yourself all the negative things. I mean, look at where you are now.
You are saying that after all the hard work you went through to get out of the wheel chair, that you cannot approach a girl.
Snap out of it! It is that much easier now. Who cares if you get embarrassed? It happens. And trust me, she will not care if you get red in the face or confuse yourself whilst talking to her.
The right girl will not judge you, and will let you approach her and take things further.
Get out of the house, look around;if you happen see the one that you like, say hi, introduce yourself. If that does not work, find another one. There are so many girls out there.
Would you really potentially date someone like me? It would make me ECSTATIC if you say yes, but please be honest. However, also please take into account that I would TRULY worship you.
BTW - we are all freaks regardless of what we think is normality.
be strong be happy and she will find you!
I have trouble with girls cause i am not intersing, but you have gone through some crazy shit tell someone about it i bet they will be interested and maybe will start to like you.
OP, I'm sure you can still get a girlfriend and lose your virginity to her. I wouldn't think it impossible for someone in a wheelchair to, either. Being in one and/or having been in one doesn't make someone a loser. Congrats on being able to walk again and good luck to you.
*climbs on Mari's lap, licks her face.*