Whenever I seem to meet with a girl/woman, the first thing I think about is how it would feel to have sex with them. I imagine them in several different positions, with me between their legs. Its really hard to not think about this, but it can be really distracting when the entire point of my discussion usually ends up trying to get them into bed.
It makes monogamy impossible, I can't control myself unless its someone i'm completely comfortable with. I can't control myself, or stop myself from cheating...
Is this normal?
It makes monogamy impossible, I can't control myself unless its someone i'm completely comfortable with. I can't control myself, or stop myself from cheating...
Is this normal?

People probably make you feel like you Should have a girlfriend, but if that's not what you want/need, then why should that be your goal?
On the other hand, if your sex drive has become a kind of an addiction and is hindering your happiness, then of course you should seek help via therapy/books/friends/etc. Good luck!
I used to have a problem where everytime I'd see a white car I'd think about my grandma and get sad. I started snapping and now they don't bother me.