I've been thinking of this a lot for a long time. Glad to debate anyone, who thinks they've thought it through more than I have.
In short, it seems to me that women say they want a sensitive guy, who is respectful of their feminist POV. But in reality women always go for the powerful, animalistic men, who give women no respect.
Women will do anything to hook up with a rich guy or a tough guy no matter how much of a sick SOB that he is. It's like being in the mafia, for instance, is a great way to meet women.
Educated women are the worst, when it comes to falling for cavemen. Whenever I see men playing the role of the feminized male with feelings and stuff, he gets dumped every time for the Terminator wanna-be.
Women don't want you to tell them you love them or care about their feelings. They pretty much figure you for a mark, if you slip and say any of that crap to them.
In other words, women are crazy. They say they want respect, but they do everything they can to invite disrespect.
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"dude, it's so simple girls like jerks jerks like themselves so obviously, jerks think very highly of themselves. They think they deserve to be with the best
girls, and girls want to be that girl
hell, it's a huge compliment when a jerk likes you"
It's sad but true...I've passed over half a dozens guys who actually treated me like I was something other than trash for the ONE a*shole who did nothing but disrespect me but in those tender moments when he was affectionate I was like "Yay! He likes me, he really likes. I really must be the best of the best!"
It's pathetic, I know.
But still ... I can't say all of em are eh?
Move ON
Same goes for women. All the women I know are annoying and shallow. Except a slim few, but they're all straight and dating the jerks.
Life sucks. Build a bridge, cross it, then burn it.
Accept it and stop insulting each other.
And for the feelings thing, men are taught from when they are born not to show their emotions. That is why they appear insensitive and without feelings. If you've never had the experience of crying when you are 6 years old and someone telling you "boys don't cry" then you will never, never understand the subsurface complexity of many males's emotions. You will simply see simple emotions; the only emotions males are allowed to feel and thus the only ones they show.
Believe what you want, but I just have to say these insults are stupid and wrong.
so blame yourself for raising emotionless guys.
women ROCK. honestly, we prbably have more sense than u. Not everyone wants a sensitive person. *honestly, I like the mysterious ones, I HATE muscular guys. esp hotshots* The women ho get caught up w/ these tards r trying to not get hurt or are kinda nasty... AND MEN R JUST AS BAD!
Its the same with men
since you generalized, men want the "nice girl, the housewife, the one who will please and say yes, never say no, right? Wrong. Men like feisty girls, who "challenge" men, who have attitude, who are "hard to get" if you will, those are the kind of girls that get most respect, and have the most potential with men.
Men might be temporarily attracted to the "easy, slutty, or otherwise 'perfect' woman, but soon they will get bored if she always says yes and agrees with everything he does, if she is too perfect.
Its the same with women. We get bored with the "perfect yes" type men. Just how men get bored with the "yes type" woman. It goes both ways.
Whats the difference between men and women? Men hide their confusion, they dont talk about it, women do, therefore, this makes them "crazy", right?
I have had my share of relationships all over the world and have come to the conclusion that it doesn't matter where you are, if you are a magnet for insane women, there are plenty to be had no matter where you live.
Everything fell apart for women somewhere around the 60's when a group of them decided that they didn't want to take shit from men anymore... and don't get me wrong, it was due time that women get recognition for all the work they put in. Men were stereotypically sexist buffoons that took the credit for everything even when that credit wasn't due. I'm glad that women are in a place of power today because if it happened any later, we'd all be dead from nuclear holocaust.
The problem with the woman's liberation movement is that once women realised how easy it is to gain equal footing, they took it to the next level and all hell broke loose.
Now, there is no defined line between the sexes and their biological roles in life... yes, there are biological roles just as there are in every species on the planet - get over it, we are all just animals. We are also the only species that has, in less than 5 decades, completely dismantled and reconstructed a sociological nature that took millions and millions of years to evolve. it has ruined a bond that we all strive so hard to attain.
I blame it on the feminist movement. It has gotten way out of control and instead of standing on the same ground as men, women today want to be on the next plateau. Its like payback for eons of repression and these generations are paying the ultimate price for men's past mistakes.
Men are now women. Women are now men.
Anyway, I for one, don't go for jerks. Or anything at all really. I just go with the flow, and i'm not really into dating. Friendship sounds good to me, though... isn't that typical. Then again, I waas always wierd, not exactly insane but......