Is it normal to want to be hurt or raped?

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Yeah its normal. Lots of guys enjoy these scenarios too. Google "bdsm"...

I was with a girl that liked to be raped, and liked to be slapped around in the process. Knowing she liked it, it was a lot of fun for both of us.

Yea, it's normal. My bf and I do it all the time. I'm pasive and he's my "rapest" It's amazing. :)

Well I'm glad im not the only one. Rape scenes in porn movies turn me on like crazy. Someone having total control over me is pretty hot (like if the guy is pinning my arms down or holding onto my waist really tight) I'm a virgin but I still have my fantasies! Of course, I wouldn't want some random guy to rape me if I was walking down the street or something. It's ironic how that's one of my biggest phobias but at the same time, a big fantasy.

Yeah that shits hot for guys, if u really want it to happen trust me you won't have any trouble in finding a guy to help you out on that... Damn reading that made my dick hard 0.o

COMPLETELY normal lol..... My husband and I do this all the time. But heed everyone elses advice in finding someone you can trust. I think it turns me on so much because he can do what he wants to me but he doesn't hurt or do things I dont like. It's like a bonding, orgasmic, slapping, hairpulling, choking, spanking, mouth covering, shhh don't scream kind of act aannnnddd now i'm turned on.

your submissive, you either enjoy being told what to do or like being forced to do certain things (but only in the bedroom).. I get it, I'm the exact same way.. all you need is a guy whos dominate in the bedroom and tell him to boss you around.. in the end you'll both have a great time.

I don't like hurting women.. but i enjoy biting

I often rape my wife. She loves it. I rip her cloths off a force her to have sex she fights back and it's rough but she gets wet and it's easy to slip into her. I don't no how rapists get it into a dry unwilling pussy

Fantasies are one thing, realities are another.

Normal.

fantasies are consensual, therefore any danger felt is protected because it's within your control. Reality on the other hand is not. It's okay to have fantasies, and if you want to act on fantasies there are people who can consent to play with your thoughts in real life. Just make sure it's consensual.

doddeman is right. I have a friend and we roll play. She is really, really nuts. Control and trusting partner and it is a blast. Lets just say I'm in the field and know what rape victims go through. We roll play as really as it possibly can get and she gets off on it big time.

OK go ahead and give it a try with no hurt just start with closing your eyes and imagine and you can tell the guy what you want him to do, well it might be really pleasurable I must admit. Are you usually pretty independent and strong as a person? Cause some women like that would like to be dominated in bed.

I had similar fascinations, though mine were with being executed. I went to a psychologist and asked him about it. He said, just as if he had heard this hundreds of times, "Oh, you feel powerless in your life." He was right. I had recently been run out of town, yes, literally run out of town by a greedy group of businessmen who owned nearly everything in town, including a loudmouth company and all the local media outlets. (The town is Boise, Idaho, in case you're interested.) I landed in a town I did not like. So I set about getting a life and, when I did, the thoughts became more rare. They're still there, particularly if I have a bad week, but they're manageable.

It is very normal to have Fantasies in this area! :)

Keep in mind though that the reality is totally different!

Play safe and sane

icould help you out at that with ma 12 inch

Its normal because i want to be hurt or raped too.!

Find yourself a Man that are into this but only in a sexual way. Let you fantasy become reality in a safe role play situation. Have fun!

By all means avoid men that uses girls like you to hurt them and act up on their own inferiority complex

as long as theres no long term damage, theres nothing wrong with it, just make sure your partner is ok w/ it

Normal yeh i'm surprised how many people have actually commented they would like to be raped :D

Yes, it is very common. Fear, anxiety, terror are all states of high emotions and can be very intense if they become sexual. It's not a matter of right or wrong, it just is. Many people wont admit to it because it's socially unacceptable, but I can't tell you how many women I have been with who ask to be hurt or choked during sex. You can't deny what turns you on. It just is.

sounds a bit like the temptation to jump off a cliff when you're on the edge.. you must be a very intense person

trust me when i tell you you dont want a ciagarrete put out on your arm. Too bad the one put out on my arm was a fuckin superblunt. mann i was ripped when i did that

Normal totaly. my best friend is the same way

This turned me on too,you should try writing for erotic sites you have talent!

This is definitely normal. I know I like to be dominated, and it's really hot when it happens. Just let your partner know what you like, and be sure to have a safe word. That way you can be spontaneous and act it out as realistically as you want, safe in the knowledge that you can still end it whenever you want.

Same here, so as far as I can see-normal!

normal, u just like to get really kinky

NORMAL! I REALLY like being dominated in bed.

don't worry about it, many wen are like that, probably some sort of primal instinct kicking in when you act as your primal self(sex)

Im 15 and a boy , one of my wishes is to be raped by a good looking woman , i wouldnt even resist , id make it look like i do but i wouldnt ! :D

i think its normal cause one time i watched a video where a guy stuck a cigerette up his gf's pussy and she liked it and i was soo turned on by it and i tried it and it was soo good i swear :)

I definitely think it's normal, and can be really enjoyable for both parties! The only thing you should really be concerned about is WHO does the act. Playing a rape scenario with a long-term partner is great, but actually being attacked by a stranger is not.

you are not sick, you simply have a fetish, and an awesome one at that. heres something you might enjoy, however you must enjoy it VERY CAREFULLY auto erotic asphyxiation. just pitting that out there

Wwwwwwwooooooooooo sexy i like to slap her big assss all the time i fuck her

do you how it is to be raped by someone believe me it isn't nice, Look at the people who were raped when they where young please don't do that to yourself