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Is it normal to want to be hurt or raped?
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Is it normal to want to be raped? When ever I see like a rape scene in a movie or on tv I can't help but be turned on. I often find myself fantasizing about being forced to have sex or like turned on about someone hurting me. Like this one time this guy I knew I were joking around and he put his arms around my neck and it hurt, but it felt so good or like this one time I was thinking about someone putting a ciggarette out on my wrist and it really excited me. Am I sick? It doesn't seem just like a fantasy like I really really want to be hurt.
Do you think it's normal?
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cooldavid (27425)
2009-08-24 00:35:06
Yeah its normal. Lots of guys enjoy these scenarios too. Google "bdsm"...
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palbheu (27558)
2009-08-24 15:52:18
sounds a bit like the temptation to jump off a cliff when you're on the edge.. you must be a very intense person
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yoyoyo65 (12140)
2009-08-24 16:06:09
icould help you out at that with ma 12 inch
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burnttoast (27351)
2009-08-24 16:47:23
Fantasies are one thing, realities are another.

Normal.
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hornynsexybiach (27607)
2009-08-25 14:36:42
Its normal because i want to be hurt or raped too.!
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poojug (14786)
2009-08-26 01:22:34
fantasies are consensual, therefore any danger felt is protected because it's within your control. Reality on the other hand is not. It's okay to have fantasies, and if you want to act on fantasies there are people who can consent to play with your thoughts in real life. Just make sure it's consensual.
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doddeman (27777)
2009-08-29 04:32:47
Find yourself a Man that are into this but only in a sexual way. Let you fantasy become reality in a safe role play situation. Have fun!

By all means avoid men that uses girls like you to hurt them and act up on their own inferiority complex
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eagle (27869)
2009-08-31 00:59:08
as long as theres no long term damage, theres nothing wrong with it, just make sure your partner is ok w/ it
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soul634 (27968)
2009-09-02 02:18:38
trust me when i tell you you dont want a ciagarrete put out on your arm. Too bad the one put out on my arm was a fuckin superblunt. mann i was ripped when i did that
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jayjay60 (25427)
2009-09-03 00:05:37
Normal totaly. my best friend is the same way
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rfc6486 (28058)
2009-09-03 18:47:05
doddeman is right. I have a friend and we roll play. She is really, really nuts. Control and trusting partner and it is a blast. Lets just say I'm in the field and know what rape victims go through. We roll play as really as it possibly can get and she gets off on it big time.
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infinite (4917)
2009-09-06 05:30:31
I was with a girl that liked to be raped, and liked to be slapped around in the process. Knowing she liked it, it was a lot of fun for both of us.
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muzziwuzzi1hotmailcouk (28424)
2009-09-12 18:19:53
Normal yeh i'm surprised how many people have actually commented they would like to be raped :D
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Nephella (28757)
2009-09-20 21:40:45
Yea, it's normal. My bf and I do it all the time. I'm pasive and he's my "rapest" It's amazing. :)
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AlexMcG (29327)
2009-10-03 18:56:45
@: hornynsexybiach
thats good. at least i know im not the only one. i think its normally. when me and my bf have sex he likes to be rough and i love it. he has pretended to rape me before. it was actually really awesome.
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ClaireS (29414)
2009-10-05 20:11:45
COMPLETELY normal lol..... My husband and I do this all the time. But heed everyone elses advice in finding someone you can trust. I think it turns me on so much because he can do what he wants to me but he doesn't hurt or do things I dont like. It's like a bonding, orgasmic, slapping, hairpulling, choking, spanking, mouth covering, shhh don't scream kind of act aannnnddd now i'm turned on.
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justmetalking (29624)
2009-10-10 14:04:35
Yes, it is very common. Fear, anxiety, terror are all states of high emotions and can be very intense if they become sexual. It's not a matter of right or wrong, it just is. Many people wont admit to it because it's socially unacceptable, but I can't tell you how many women I have been with who ask to be hurt or choked during sex. You can't deny what turns you on. It just is.
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Sebastian1364 (30002)
2009-10-18 21:36:02
Yeah that shits hot for guys, if u really want it to happen trust me you won't have any trouble in finding a guy to help you out on that... Damn reading that made my dick hard 0.o
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Evralette (30113)
2009-10-21 02:19:00
your submissive, you either enjoy being told what to do or like being forced to do certain things (but only in the bedroom).. I get it, I'm the exact same way.. all you need is a guy whos dominate in the bedroom and tell him to boss you around.. in the end you'll both have a great time.
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