Is it normal to want to be in a relationship like this?

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hm. i was in such a triangle relationship a couple years back. Me, another girl, and a guy.
The girl was fully bi and basically the "anchor" point for both me and him, but as things go, me and him also did sexual stuff. We all lived together in a flat and basically worked like a "couple" with each another. It worked surprisingly well, for a time, so i guess it's understandable one would want to try and experience that for yourself. Do understand though that this requires a clear "definition" of roles to work out...basically one person as the "alpha"(the other girl), the partner(the guy), and the beta that submits to the others(Me).
If you try to set something like this up with all participants equal and with the same rights to one another, i see a recipe for disaster.

sounds like every guys dream to have 2 girlfriends and all living together

Lol, most Mormons aren't polygamist.

Then you must be a Mormon.

Mormons will be Mormons...

Convert to Islam :D

I am not Mormon, lol. Just felt like clarifying that.

Personally, I don't see that type of relationship being one that would last. If you want to spend the rest of your life with someone(s) that's something to consider. I couldn't handle that though, it'd make me feel like I wasn't good enough or something. I couldn't handle the jealousy or feeling neglected. Which is why that lifestyle isn't right for me. If it's what makes others happy though, go for it. Just be careful and make sure you're absolutely certain it'd be a good lifestyle for You.

I had a relationship like this also although it was mainly sexual.