I am a married man, happily i might add.
I have recently become very freindly with a man, over the past 6 months we hang around together quite a bit.
He has done things that i feel are more like flirting then anything else. He has grabbed me from behind and pulls me into him and i can feel that he is very aroused. At first i pulled away from him but now i seem to welcome it. I feel very aroused my self. The last time he did this i actually pulled him in closer to me and he obliged by rubbing his member on me. Now everytime that we are going to meet up i am actually very excited to see him. He asked me the other day if i would kiss him and it caught me by suprise so i instantly changed the subject. Now i feel that i should have responded to his request with something a yes or a why. He called me the next day and apologies to me, i told him the there was no reason to apologies. He has invited me to his house for dinner he is single lives by himself. I have a very good feeling that he wants to have sex with me. I am contemplating whether i should go or not, and the only reason for that is because i'm afraid that i a going to enjoy him sexually. Yes or No what should i do? what would you do in my shoes?
I have recently become very freindly with a man, over the past 6 months we hang around together quite a bit.
He has done things that i feel are more like flirting then anything else. He has grabbed me from behind and pulls me into him and i can feel that he is very aroused. At first i pulled away from him but now i seem to welcome it. I feel very aroused my self. The last time he did this i actually pulled him in closer to me and he obliged by rubbing his member on me. Now everytime that we are going to meet up i am actually very excited to see him. He asked me the other day if i would kiss him and it caught me by suprise so i instantly changed the subject. Now i feel that i should have responded to his request with something a yes or a why. He called me the next day and apologies to me, i told him the there was no reason to apologies. He has invited me to his house for dinner he is single lives by himself. I have a very good feeling that he wants to have sex with me. I am contemplating whether i should go or not, and the only reason for that is because i'm afraid that i a going to enjoy him sexually. Yes or No what should i do? what would you do in my shoes?
If you truely love your wife and are as happily married as you say, don't do it. Don't betray your wife's trust, resist this temptation and stay committed. If you're doubting your relationship, well, keep thinking about this. Only do something with another person if you decide to get seperated. Keep your integrity.