Well I don't believe in spiritual hooha. Yes sex is something special you share with your significant other, but I strongly disagree with marriage and being under the illusion that sex is something you will have shared with only one person in your entire lifetime. It may occur that two people will have that sort of relationship but 90% of the time that fantasy is broken and the person who believed in it will be more devastated and possibly wind up insane.
And why encourage foreplay without the sex? That's mad talk! Or are you saying that anal sex doesn't count as having sex?
I agree with your whole first paragraph lol. We feel the same way, but of course others might not.
I was just talking about vaginal sex. I guess it all depends on the people and what they think is okay before marriage. Some who are saving their V card until marriage might not do anything at all in a sexual way with their partner (which I personally think is a horrible idea, like you said, it will turn awkward). I was thinking about other options, such as oral and anal sex. All depends on what a person deems as okay and not okay in the whole waiting for marriage shpeal.
Hmm, if you're saying that some woman really think that anal and oral sex doesn't count it truly saddens me that people think their vagina is a Goddess that should only be fed to the Chosen One on some such holy day, although their other holes are just some place to plug into in the meantime until the day the vagina prophets have spoken of has becometh. I weep for humanity..
And why encourage foreplay without the sex? That's mad talk! Or are you saying that anal sex doesn't count as having sex?
I was just talking about vaginal sex. I guess it all depends on the people and what they think is okay before marriage. Some who are saving their V card until marriage might not do anything at all in a sexual way with their partner (which I personally think is a horrible idea, like you said, it will turn awkward).
I was thinking about other options, such as oral and anal sex. All depends on what a person deems as okay and not okay in the whole waiting for marriage shpeal.