Is it normal to want to wait until marriage

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Good!

I see no problem with this.

I thinks it's a sweet thing. Good for you ! :)

I like and think its normal... but marriage isnt for everyone... your "special guy" may never want to be married.

It's normal, but when you say "before i have anymore sex" it means that you're not a virgin and that someone won't be that special. In my opinion, I think you'll have to find the partner that's not a virgin and is also "saving themselves". Otherwise, the best of luck finding him/her.

I think it's kind of sweet. I totally think it's normal and support people who thinks like that.

I think you will find that when you do meet a person you're attracted to, you wont feel the need to wait untill marriage anymore. I know my girlfriend wanted to wait untill atleast 5 months, and I supported that, but she just couldnt help it.

Waiting untill marriage is normal, but do you really want to leave one of the best pleasures of life untill your 20, 25, even 30+?

It's a perfectly normal personal decision. Don't let people tell you it's not, because as long as it's your personal decision and it makes you feel confortable and happy to do so, that's all that matters. Also, if the assumtion that you've already had it before is true, then don't think that not being a virgin makes waiting to do it again strange. Again, if it's what makes you happy and comfortable, go for it!

At the same time, though, it's also perfectly normal if you slip up or come close to it, so don't beat yourself up if you do. To be perfectly honest, this decision is something that goes against our instincts to mate and reproduce, but I personally see that a simple effort to control the urges, whether we're successful or not, shows a strength of mind and character. What really matters is that you hold off until you find someone who you'll be happy being intimite with.

Clearly if you're using the term, "noob", no one's going to take you seriously. Not everyone wants to whore themselves around like you.

no it's not!!!! how do you know if they're going top be compatable?

No its not normal but its not a bad trait. You are making a good choice that you are 95% guaranteed to not be disappointed with.

I'm 18 and still a virgin. That doesn't make me a loser though. I just never wanted to do it with my ex.

I'm engaged with twins on the way I am 20 wait for marrige

As well as you should! Sex is only great between you and the person you love, so I applaud you for waiting until marriage!

I would'nt. You don't go into a shoe store and not try on the shoes your about to purchase. Fun Sex and love making with your partner is the absolute strength builder in a marriage. It builds such a bond between to people. I have been married for over 20 years. So if one of you really suck at it or decide its not all that then the other will suffer in the marriage.
Opposites attract only for a short time. Common ideas, likes and dislikes keep a marriage together.

Do what you want with your genitals.
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NO! OMG! This can't possibly be true! This is NOT! normal AT ALL in any way, shape, or form.

NOBODY saves there selves for marriage what are you crazy? We ALL whore ourselves out to as many people that we can in the shortest amount of time we can.

Seriously, get professional help. You are SICK in the head dude....

No its not normal....In fact it is abnormal.
It is however your choice. The vast majority of people do not wait untill marriage and there is a very intellegent argument that states waiting till married may result in marrying someone with whom you are sexually incompatible.
The real issue however is why you think it is even a consideratiion. If it is due to the riddiculous views of the church (Morons who believe in fairies at the bottom of the garden)who just want to protect thier own membership, then you should imediately have sex with as many people as possible!!! Its none of thier business!!

You should choose your own path and not be bullied by anyone else. Once you do have sex...enjoy it and be safe...its wonderfull.