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Is it normal to wonder why women have sex with "boys"?
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I saw this on my Facebook posted by a chick who knowingly had a baby with a guy who, so far, has fathered 4 kids with 4 different women, not sticking around or paying child support for any of them.

Many women I know are very outspoken in their beliefs on what the difference between a "boy" and a "man" is, and they say they want a "man". So why do they keep having sex with boys?

Is it normal to look at things like this and wonder why women have sex and kids with these "boys" if they really want "men"?
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Yet another female that thinks that what she wants a man to be is actually what a man should be.

It's something I dislike about women, they have sex with "boys", then expect them to suddenly turn in to a responsible man.

Why is it that if you don't raise someone elses child, then you aren't a man? Just another case of "be what I want you to be, do what I want you to do, or you aren't a real man".

What's ironicly funny is the "boys make excuses" part. "She's" making excuses for having a child with a boy instead of looking for a responsible "man". So "she's" making excuses for "her" failure to find a responsible man instead of finding a boy and expecting the boy to somehow turn in to a responsible man simply because she is in a relationship with him.

Men look for someone to take care of? Sorry, equality is a bitch. If you want equality, then it's not a bad thing to want to be taken care for by a partner, just like the woman would like to be taken care of by her man.

Men demand respect? Respect isn't given when demanded, it is earned when deserved, otherwise it isn't real respct.

A lot of women like to blame their bad decisions on the mistakes they make. Their whole "it's their fault" logic is pretty much the "I didn't shoot the person, the gun did" logic, which isn't really logic.

Ultimatly, it is "her" fault for looking for a boy, and then expect the boy to turn in to a man within a week. If she wants a man, she looks for a man, not a boy and expect him to suddenly turn responsible.

Tell this girl that ItDuz said she's a stupid "girl".
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@: ItDuz
So I can take it that we are in agreement that this is ridiculous?

Good answer, by the way. I was looking forward to any answers that I would get from you.

If you have anything beyond that you're welcome to share!
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100% agreement.
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@: ItDuz
And thank you very much for your answer ;)
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@: ItDuz
Brilliant.
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@: ItDuz
Great answer!
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@: ItDuz
Well thought out and well said.

Though I'm not sure why having sex with someone immature (boys) and expecting that person to suddenly turn into someone responsible (men) is something you dislike about women specifically. Blaming other people for your own bad decisions, and then wanting them to suddenly change - that behavior is shown equally by both men and women.
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@: ItDuz
All good points. I would also like to point out the "Boys shack up, men get married" statement.

According to this lady's rules for manhood, I will never be a man unless I get a document from the government stating that I'm legally attached to the woman I'm with. I don't think I need to explain how stupid that is. What about homosexual males, who don't even have the option to get married in most places? Are they not men?
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@: tommy81
According to that logic that is as horribly flawed as the person that posted it, no. They are not men.
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@: ItDuz
*claps* You sir, are the winner of the day.

Seriously, your comment is full of win.
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Men have class. Boys have swagger.

Good day gentlemen.
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I love that statement!
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sp123
Women can be so naive! Yes i am a girl aswell but I am so sick of my friends coming to me after another "boy" has broken their hearts.
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You know what, I'm really wondering why this post is only at 67%. I guess there are too many insecure women on this site; which makes more sense.
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Yeah, I looked at it a few minutes ago and thought the same thing.
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clementine92
Drunken mistakes & misjudging of character... That's why I do it anyway :/ but I'm working on it! (:
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wigsplitz
She made herself look stupid by a lame attempt at shaming the 'boy'. From the sound of it, she posted that so that this guy would see it, probably, not so much that it's her relationship criteria.

Very foolish to even sleep with someone who has such a track record! BUT...people always seem to think they will be the 'one' to change someone. People are always wanting to save someone, protect or help them or whatever, it's just something that almost everyone does to some extent. Also, people will put up with quite a lot once significantly invested in a relationship. People put up with abuse, drugs/drinking, not being able to hold a job, all sorts of things. It's just that hope that people have that firstly things will be different with ME, and when that doesn't pan out, that the person will magically change....happens to almost everyone to some degree I think....although some people are really, really stupid and never learn!!
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100% agree with you!!

"He is sooo different with me."

Yeah, for the first 3 months!!
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The reason why women work out such a theory is because they've been hurt before. Someone who doesn't sleep around with douchebags won't make long statements about how guys are jerks.
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I really don't get it myself even though I've never been in a relationship. I've had boys want to be with me though and I told them no so they have tried to fool me into liking them, never happened. I'm not that stupid.

That post you found on facebook is retarded though. The part where it says men demand for respect really got me though, since when did men demand for it. I have to laugh at it, considering you can tell that she is a "girl". I can't stand girls like that. There are reasons why I deactivated my facebook. I was tired of seeing that same bullshit on mine.
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I wonder the same thing.
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I think the issue isn't "boy" or "man" but... "girl"


You said he's fathered children on 4 women without providing any support for his kids. So one has to wonder how sane she was to think she'd be the special exception.
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I haven't a clue. I believe that she was Mother #3 and Mother #4 was right after her but I think there may be more than 4.

The other Mother posted all over his facebook account wall "I THOUGHT YOU SAID YOU WERE READY TO BE A FATHER!"

Well if he was ready, he already had 3-4 other kids to chose from o.o
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All we need now is to get them on the Jerry Springer show.


Especially if the girls get into a cat-fight over him... cos he's such a catch indeed. O_o
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I met him once. He seemed like a nice guy but like a stupid fuck as well.

I'd love to get them onto Jerry Springer but most of the girls have moved on to bigger and better dicks- I mean things.
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well that's good then.

cos nothing sadder than watching women fight over a train-wreck of a man.
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Nawh, I got to see that too XD
But then he moved out of state.
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MissSorel
If she was smart and a classy sassy woman, she'd have started using protection or found a man and not a boy as she claims.

It's her fault as well.
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Apparently he "charmed" her into taking the condom off.
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MissSorel
Really? If a guy tried that with me, there would be no sex whatsoever taking place.
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No glove no love ;)
But she said he was convincing and manipulative =/
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I know.
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This. Both the mother and father should be financially responsible.
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Well, your first mistake was getting on Facebook. Should've known better than to do that shit...

Secondly, I agree completely and WOW at ItDuz's comment!
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If she knew that the guy was a deadbeat when she had sex with him, then it's here own damn fault for getting involved with him =/
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They're pedophiles, I guess.
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I know someone who is like...in her thirties...and she just loves guy in the early twenties... I think that it may have something to do with the fact that her mind is stuck in HER twenties...
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1000yrVampireKing
I can not tell if you mean figuratively or literally. Sex with a boy is disgusting and wrong.
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