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I see nothing wrong with being gay and of courses being straight is normal, but I hate when people proclaim that they are bi. I think you should be gay or straight. Especially If your a guy, and alot of girls fake it for attention. But I don't hate bi people cause I do have some bi friends, but I just don't agree with it. Why just can't people just choose a sex and stick to that.
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I hate people like you. Bi people aren't so superficial. They judge based on who the person is not their sex. There is nothing wrong with being attracted to both sexes. Really what is wrong with you. Why not be concerned about yourself and not with bisexuals since it doesn't apply to you anyway.
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glitterock
@: TyLee
Exactly!
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Ditto
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@: TyLee
Hear, hear
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@: TyLee
i think they are selfish instead, confused and do have a sexual preference but they won't say it for convenience.
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What about asexual people?
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what about them?
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You're just jealous
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Why is liking more stuff selfish? If you like two bands, are you more selfish than just liking one? People like what they like. And "like" is a good thing. Certainly a better thing than the dislike that you're throwing around.
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@: dappled
what a stupid example!
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@: shine
How? I think it's a very good one.

Or if you'd prefer, what OP is saying is that liking two types of icecream is selfish, they should just stick to one.
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You can't judge if you are not in the position, who are you to say they have to be either gay or straight...
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I am bi and i'm not confused. I like to feel the person all complete not only their penis or vaginas.
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I love the "and of course being straight is normal..."......
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@: flax
right

so no problem with gay people, their just not normal.
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Well I'm so freaking sorry I'm attracted to both sexes
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carolann
What bitter envy! We are so much fun and you just hate it.
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Like I said before I don't hate them for being bi...I just think people should just pick a team. It just my opinion. But most bi people I've seen thinks it's ok to whore around and to me if you do a homosexual act, you might as well be gay. But that just me.
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Its unbelievable how ignorant you are. Since you are straight, do you think you could CHOOSE to be gay? NO, RIGHT? I agree that many girls do pretend for attention and that can give others a bad impression, but who cares? We are who we are. You sound a little jealous to me. I'm bi and never kissed a girl, its just attraction. If I meet a girl I fall in love with why not date her? because we should just pick a team:? This isn't like picking a baseball team.
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no he/she's not ignorant but honest. Bi people have a choice, infact many say and you know it's true, that they have a preference for a sex. So they can pick a side, it is just too convenient to not do so. So yes they are totally selfish!
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@: shine
i doubt that they can just 'pick a side'. for some people it doesnt work like that. they could choose to be straight but then they would more than likely find themselves attracted to someone of their own gender and have extreme difficulty controlling their urges
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i don't think people actually choose being gay or straight. But I do when they are bi.
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thats where you are wrong people dont choose to be bi they just end up liking both genders so thats the right answer now quit being so hateful.
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I could well change my sexual behaviour to keep people like you happy.
I could go "Well, I prefer girls slightly, so I'll live as a lesbian"
And let's just say I did that. And then the most amazing, handsome and kind man steps into my life, with the hots for me.
What do I do, oh-so-wise-one?
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MyNirvana333
Okay, I think that if you're an older woman and/or man and you are bi, I think that it is alright. To like both sexes is possible. But when you're a younger bi man, I think that you're covering up for being gay. And if you're a younger bi girl, then you're just a slut. That has been my experience. Most young women say they are to gain attention from boys.
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I'm a young bi woman and being outed is my idea of hell. Problem?
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Bi people just get the best of both worlds :-) Don't be such a hater.
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Why should they have to choose? And how is there sex life any of your business unless you want to date them?
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Oli
Get your head out of your ass.

And if you're going to insult people, at least do it with correcr grammar.
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LOL. You are part of the reasons why I'm so disappointed of society.
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@: bubber
i hate bi's too!
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@: shine
I hate you too :)
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Wow.
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I just think they're confused
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Bisexuals are wonderful and lucky. They can love anyone..or at least have double the chance for a piece of ass.
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Why should there be something wrong eith being bi its not faking I've had girlfriends and a boyfriend and ive been genuinely attracted to both!!!
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straight , bi , or gay who cares as long as you are adults and not hurting anyone and having fun do it
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Oh please...
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Wow...I'm bi but I guess you just don't understand. It's not an attention seeking thing-you are so narrow minded. It's just the way it is-bi people get the best of both worlds ;)
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Of course you wouldn't agree with it your not bisexual. Just rude. Im not bisexual or lesbian. But still. Like what you like and shut the hell up.
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Gems
You've created a post and you've expressed your distaste for bisexuals. So what? And, now what? It's not going to STOP them from pursuing that lifestyle... Thanks for nothing.
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I hope all these comments changed your mindset. People can fall in love / be attracted to whoever they want. They can genuinely love either gender. Why the hell choose one and be "stuck" to that side? Love is love! Bye bye!
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Well, men actually tend to be either straight or gay, with very little in between, and women tend to always be somewhere in between and are rarely entirely straight or entirely gay. I learned this from a gender and sex studies class. Women aren't being selfish by being somewhere in between, that's just how they are. A man may not understand being bi, because he is not geared to think that way. Nothing weird about it. Bisexual does not equal selfish, in fact it's a little more beautiful because it means someone likes another person for who they are and not for their gender.
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"Well, men actually tend to be either straight or gay, with very little in between, and women tend to always be somewhere in between and are rarely entirely straight or entirely gay."
Stop saying that. Stop fucking saying shit like that, please.

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I appreciate what you were saying about bisexual not being selfish, but please do not help perpetuate the myth that male bisexuality is so odd and female so common.

Do you know how the "fact" that "male bisexuals are usually gay or straight" started? A group of 101 men were hooked up to apparatus to detect arousal (No I do not understand what that is exactly either) and shown pornography with men or women.

"Gay men were aroused by images of men, while heterosexual men were aroused by women. But psychologists said those claiming to be bisexual were only aroused by one or the other – 75per cent by men and the rest by women."

So yeah. One study. Never mind that it may be hard to become sexually aroused when being monitored, that some may have a preference for pornography with a certain sex, or that some may have not found the people in said pornography attractive.

Never mind that in many societies, bisexuality in men was the norm... (Such as the ancient Greeks).
(Rant over)
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its not true that all men are either 100% gay or straight. i know from my own experience that even though i am basically 'straight' and am very attracted to women and when i see a hot girl i always see her as VERY sexually attractive. however, sometimes i will have gay thoughts and be turned on. ive even have thoughts at times about other guys in real life especially when im feeling very horny (although i never feel compelled to act on anything). i never get off on thinking of myself as on the 'feminine' end of things so to speak. so, i can entirely understand this 'mindset'
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Wow, that doesn't even make sense. What's wrong with loving an individual rather than a gender? Grow up.
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How do you know people are faking it for attention?


Is this something you've specifically seen, or is it your own assumptions?
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PearxDrops
How are Bi people selfish. Just because some one is bi doesn't mean they have 2 people on the go at once, they just find people of the same and difference sex attractive. It's not selfish to love people. It's homophobes like you that are jerks, with your stereotypes and assumptions, grow up before you insult a whole group of people.
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I'm a young male and I have a boyfriend and your an ignorant, close minded little man in most cases but in my case, your totally right.
I pretty much chose to be bi and we both still see girls, we just want all the fun. I'm glad the fact that I can have more fun than you pisses you off, tell me your name so I can shout it out during sex with whatever I do it with next
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You can't help it if you like a bit of both.

Presumably a bi person would only be seeing one person at a time so I don't really know how being bi could be considered greedy.

I can't see a logical reason to dislike bi people.
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What do you care what other people do? Mind your own damn business.
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im a think im little bit bi myself and although i dont really identify that way or have any desire to act on my gay thoughts/fantasies i find this post very offensive and it fucking pisses me off. i dont know how im greedy if only my parents know about this and i am not even acting on it or considering acting on it.
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1000yrVampireKing
If you apply this to bi people you apply it to gays as well. So if a chick is pretty and guys like her it is her obligation to like men! So according to that logic no one should be gay either. I do hate when bi people call everyone bi since I do not see how that is up to them. I also hate when people are with someone and suddenly say "Oh nevermind I like the other sex now"! Since that is just such a mind fuck and seriously fucks with the person you left.
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