I am older than him by 11(27 and 38) years and we never really knew eachother because we live in different states, I come to see family 2 or 3 times a year, but this time we happen to notice eachother, we have been spending time together and want to sleep together but are confused on if its ok because we are second cousins, we arent looking to get married or have kids or anything, he is a fireman and he is hot, which i have a thing for firemen. so can you let me know is this ok, or is it weird. i mean i could really fall in love in love with him if I knew it is ok, i would never even kiss a first cousin, that i know definetly is wrong. Im so confused!
I think it has a lot to do with perceived availability and inexperience with romantic relationships.
Its hard to believe that it would ever feel right or be accepted by others. So he's hot? There are lots of hot guys who are not your cousin.