IS IT THEM OR ME

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You are 15. Boys probably still think you have cooties. Don't worry, they will grow up. Only immature males let looks really direct their relationships. Wait until they turn into men a little more.

Beware, The people on here can be really mean and insensative. Get your guard up and keep it there.

I will help protect you. I do not know if I can help though, because I am married and 28. I don't know what kids like anyMore.
BUT...
Sounds like you may need to look for someone just a little older than 15. Or you could wait and be a kid for as long as you possibly can.

The boys you like are most likely assholes. They run because they're self -centered and immature, like the rest of them.

im the origenal poster of this post and new to this so thanks for protecting me

and thanks for the help!

Alright I thank you that think a few of us 15- (14) are mature, but it brings a lot of shame for the immature people in my generation. For that I say sorry.

....Ok, come clean; this is SKYBIRD, isn't it???
Every time you see a guy they run a mile? Ok you gotta stop trying to pick up guys at the track and field events. Other than that, nothing appears to be wrong with you.
Don't sweat it, some guys will like you and some won't; just keep trying to find one that won't try and shield his sandwich whenever you walk by. Overweight isn't ugly; bitchy is ugly. You seem like a nice person and you'll find a guy, I promise.
Looks do mean a lot to men, but there are so much more important things. Like sex. And money. And "monogamous-optional" relationships. Sooner or later you'll find a non-dickweed that will like you and be a good boyfriend. Just don't think about it too much.
PEACE

P.S. Never, ever, EVER use the phrase "I'm confused" in a post. It brings with it a curse or unimaginable annoyance and irritation.
You will understand in time, young one.

That's my boy, see how sweet he can be? :)

This is seriously not my story. The submitter said she was 15. I'm 14 and not overweight.

Oh my god. I know exactly how you feel. I'm almost 14 and have ADHD, OCD, a depression and an obsession with animals. Everyone teases me and I have no friends. I wish there was some way I could help you.

its you fatso. lose some weight...

how much do you weigh

If anyone gives a crap:
I weigh 599 Lbs. -->(About the size of a shitty Volkswagen for you Europeing Foreigners)

Big Girls are sexPots just brimming with soft love to give.

ok id better come clean since people aro being accused of being me !
(sorry bout that skybird)
are you happy now leoburkurnal?
breadfish what are you goiong on about?
and grow up burbonised
ok so its me lovelia.
thanks for yourcomments anyway

I'll come clean too. I'm 185. And I still think soft girls are very beautiful.

And to you Lovelia, Most guys are idiots, especially Teen-Boys. Maybe you should try not thinking so hard about relationships and appearance. When a person is relaxed and fun to be around everyone wants to get in on that action.

HOW OLD ARE YOU METHOSjr

maybe you should try to talking to guys that arent preps and selfcentered. talk to normal poeple,people that dont care if your fat.. i understand cause i used to be heavy, im 5 feet and 3 inches and i used to weigh 253 pounds and now i weigh 145. but tahts not what you should do for people to notice you... talk to different guys.

Omg by the time I was fifteen I had had 829 boyfriends and 38 girlfriends, you are so not normal and must be as ugly as a tree!

Shy Bird,you are only fourteen?Well,fifteen now,but still...that's young!I mean,I thought you were a middle-aged lesbian.(I'm not trying to be mean or anything,I just thought that because of how much you hate homophobes and support homosexuality.)I guess you're intelligent for a fifteen year old,considering that you put up a good argument on homosexuality.Oh,and for the person that posted this story...you will find someone soon,it just takes time,etc,etc...

There are some really dumb things in the comments to this story. It always amazes me how people jump to one conclusion or another after having read a few sentences and pronounce one or another party bad, stupid or immature based on one side of a story.
The kind of experience you are having is very normal, both for guys and girls at your age. It doesn't happen to everyone, but it happens to a lot of people. It is understandable that you are worried that your lack of sucess with boys is because of your looks, but that isn't the first thing I would suspect of being the problem. It is most likely your attitude.
It is a terrible and ironic fact about human psychology that the more you feel like you need attention from others, particularly from the opposite sex, the less they think you are worth their time. This sense of neediness or desperation comes through in your actions and others can sense it. That probably doesn't help much when you really do need to feel like you are worth someone's interest. Except that it is possible sometimes to fool people temporarily by playing it cool, and not expressing your desire for attention so openly.

Other than that it will help if you can convince yourself that you are as worthy of a boy's time as any other girl and maybe open your eyes to the guys who you may be overlooking for reasons similar to those that have the guys you like overlooking you.

Wildsketch really covered a lot with top notch insight.

Just to add, weight issues do count a lot and unfortunately are given way too much priority. Maintaining a healthy weight is a huge problem today and extra weight is a big time turn off to forming opposite sex relationships, especially to young guys. If you lose the extra weight, you will likely find making friends much easier. Good luck to you.