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I'm a teenage boy and a virgin. I think. I want to know if rubbing a girls private parts counts as "sex". When I'm kissing my girlfriend, I'll slip my hand down her skirt and gently tug on her panties and run my finger along her hole. I don't stick it inside. I want to stay a virgin until I'm commited to someone. Does touching of private parts count as losing virginty?
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Anonymous (Story Author)
2006-05-25 05:33:34
I don't think it does unless you stuck your finger in her, and you said you didn't.
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pie1985 (720)
2006-05-25 05:40:01
nope sorry .

playing down there is a form of sex and you can be a virgin for any act you do but going all the way generally is the way to loose the big v.
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brothershamass (380)
2006-05-25 06:48:56
@: pie1985
^ ^ That rubbish, it called forpaly. Until you stick it up her box you are a virgin and vice versa.

Now if you were to stick it up her arse, I guess you would loose your virginity but she would still technically be a vaginal virgin.
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Anonymous
2006-05-25 09:44:23
Straight from the Dictionary:

Virgin: A person who has not experienced sexual intercourse.

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ItIsntNormal (1877)
2006-05-25 13:48:08
Semantics, semantics. Dude, putting your dick in a hole isn't the be all and end all of sexual experience. In fact, touching someone's vagina, oral sex - these things are often more intimate than just straight up vaginal intercourse. If you think saving it is important, then you wouldn't have gone as far as you already have. You just want to be able to SAY you're a virgin. Think about it this way - do you think it would REALLY mean something to someone you're committed to if you say, "all we did was intimately touch one another! I put my dick on the OUTSIDE of her panties and just sort of rubbed along the hole - but, baby - I saved myself for YOU." Real fucking impressive, buddy. You're just too immature for any of it. Keep your hands, wang, and any other protrusion of your body to yourself until you're old enough to realize that dick-in-hole isn't all that special in comparison to so much other stuff.
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Moi (588)
2006-05-25 14:38:58
Everything but the homerun . . .
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Anonymous
2006-05-30 20:53:20
Nope, if you haven't made genital to genital penetration then you're good. If you do decide to go all the way she seems easy going by letting you play with her and you'll round the bases with the ease of Casanova (google it if you don't know) Just be safe and wear a hat (condom). But you want to remain a virgin, I applaud your efforts and hope you do.
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smartpatrol (2293)
2006-06-03 08:43:10
After you have benn rubbing her up smell your finger.
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pinki (2403)
2006-06-21 09:37:24
you are still a virgin you didnt have penatrive sex with her . basically you havent stuck your winky in anyones muff yet so you are still a virgin.
and your right wait till you are defo commited. no point in doing it for no reason
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donkeyspuzz (3277)
2006-08-17 07:39:18
Try giving her a pokey bum wank. She'll love it.
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