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I'm a man in his 30's and I like to hang around the arcade in the mall and hit on young girls (around 14 - 16 years old). Sometimes I get them to go to a movie with me. I've made out with a few of them and fingered 2 of them. I even got a blowjob from one girl. One said I can go all the way with her next time her parents are out of town in a couple of weeks and I'm thinking about doing it. I know it's considered wrong by society and I feel guilty, but I can't help that I'm so attracted to them!
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Hi There im chris hansen with dateline nbc.....
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@: vitekza
LMAO!!!! Oh that was good! I fucking love this site! Laughter is truly the best medicine!
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@: vitekza
I think no problem but maybe a little younger would be even better!
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@: rick64
There are some very very sick people on this site!
your are one of them!
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@: vitekza
Oh wow. How not cliche.
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To all those sprouting "below 18 = jail" > stop assuming everyone lives where you live > If the wikipedia age of consent map is right
(see http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/e/ef/Age_of_Consent.png) 16 is the age of consent in most countries.

But as you can see on the map there`s a country with age 9 as age of consent ... and quite a few with age 14 as age of consent.

Also note that 13 has been the age for marriage for about 1800 years, if not more, it`s just that society changed it views in the last 100-200 years...

So I`d just call it natural instinct to be attracted to girls `round those ages, just stupid social stigma making it look like it`s worse then serial killing ...

> damn DINLA100 ur way too lucky...
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i agree n whos to say that in the next 100-200 years the age of consent wont go back down
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you know way too much about this! my gues is your a PEODOPHILE!
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My guess is you don't know what pedophilia actually is.
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I'm fucking grossed out.

People would have a field day slitting throats here.

Why don't you try ageplay?

It's what adult school uniforms are for.

However, I'm 18,and when I put on my cute school uniform on, I look about 12.
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Can u show us?
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Love age play! I have dated a few girls who do too. We also met a few teens that wanted to join us in role reversal. Stop being such a prude.
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Exactly. My bf n I role play.. although, I'm too old too look 12.. lol.. But it's the idea that counts.
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You have to ask yourself WHY this young girl is so willing to have sex with you.

In my experience, it is usually a desperate search of approval and validation caused by a lack of self worth from a history of sexual abuse.

If you engage in sex with this girl, you will reinforce her self-perception that her only value as a human being is as a sex toy. You will therefore cause damage to a young girl who has already been victimized.
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i am 47 and masturbate most nights over a preteen, as long as it stays a fantasy is there a problem?
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with this as long as you dont force the girls against their will.
Myself I actually prefer mine between the ages of thirteen and sixteen
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I actually prefer 6 to 13 as they are so sweet and innocent, bald and puffy also
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broken_angel
@: rick64
tht makes u a pedo doesnt it if they r 6,7,8,9,10,&11?
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@: rick64
YO! That crosses the line. Children are sexless. There is huge difference between having sex with someone who is pubescent, surging whit hormones and capable or reproduce and raping a little kid. Stick to lolicon or get raped in jail you waste.
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I enjoy forcing all sorts of things, everything under the sun in fact.
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hehe .. I personally would love to date young high school girls - they're just adorable and cute. especially after watching the movie "Kick-Ass" ... hint: "Hit-Girl!"

I'm in my 20s though. and unfortunately ... the legal sex age in Cali is 18 ... so I suppose the girls can sue me afterward ... -_-

but it appears that it's 14 in Canada ... hmmmmmmmmm =P
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@: yic17
Me being a teen myself, I really don't think it's that big of a deal if a guy dates a younger girl.
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Unless you are opposed to fornication in general, you could not make any kind of logical argument that this is wrong.
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What about when a nine yo tries to SEDUCE..This happened to me a few years ago. She was the daughter of my mothers neighbor, her words were and I quote " If you give me $2 I'll let you do something". I can't tell you exactly what happened but 1/2 hour latter she flagged down the ice creme truck.
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Hahahahahahahahahahahahahhaha
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how offen did she have ice creme lol
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I believe it. Some of these kids out here a malicious sociopaths. My stepsister has been sexually manipulating people since age 10 .
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cruelintentions
Nothing wrong with it, but I agree with the poster above be careful make sure not to hurt them. Communicate your intentions if its just sex or more. Good luck.
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Older guys needa stay away from girls that age...let them enjoy childhood and not rot their minds.
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@: Sweetz
I knew a great deal of young girls who's minds where plenty rotten. Argument for innocence is an argument from ignorance.
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cabinet70
Nothing wrong with that enjoy it mate
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Yes, cabby and I aren't ashamed of it either, now, are we.
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cabinet70
No were not EW
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Budthewise
God damn it. It is NOT okay to hit on young girls. Understand, it is NOT okay.

I have had opportunities before as well but I turned them down because they would have caused nothing but trouble.

I had an exgirlfriend who was eleven years older than me. Her daughter in our house was 15 and VERY beautiful (Look in my profile for my current fiance) and I did have a chance. I turned it down though although my body really really wanted to.

Why, because it would be far better for the girl to grow up on her own and enjoy her own life. I did not have to introduce her to sex or these topics. Although I did answer EVERY question she asked me about the topic.

Now that I am done with her mom and no longer around her or her daugher, do I regret not trying anything. As a man, yes. As a human and an intelligent person, no. I am glad I didn't but it doesnt hurt me to be annoyed when I am told about my ex and her hot daughter.

However, at the end of the day, I can look into the mirror and be very happy I am truly innocent within MYSELF and this brings joy to my life.
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You are a cunt.
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how is he a "cunt"? he did the RIGHT thing..mabye you shoudl takes some few notes from him.
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@: ok_2013
What's right is subjective. Personally, I would have pounded the bitch. But then again I'm 18.
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OH MY GOD, Could you suck your own cock more?
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cabinet70
I agree with the posters above dont hurt them give them plenty of oral first or your likely to split them in half ot fracture the pelvis
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i think its cool cuz older guyz its almost cuz its supose to be wrong plus mostly they buy me stuff hehe
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Yeah, alot of pedos on this site. Guess they cant help it. It should just feel wrong, I can see being attracted to a young girl who looks older or fantasizing about her. But even that is really going too far. I once new a guy who was in his late 20s, 28 or so who was with a 16 year old girl. She really liked him and I guess they are still together, but I dont see the attraction. But, whatever.
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Yes to what bioboy said. You'll basically be ruining her life, unless you plan to wed her.
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What the fuck is wrong with you?! Can you really not date anyone born in your decade? Do you have to go so low to find love? Those girls aren't old enough to know what they want. They want to look cool by giving thirty year olds blow jobs. They look at you as someone knowledgable about the world like you've been around and you just take advantage of that.
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I agree, the OP was taking advantage of the trust those girls had in older men. If you tried anything like that here in Leningrad, you'd get a molotov cocktail in your face before you could say pedo.
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GO FOR IT DUDE! Invite me too!
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@: dog19
me as well
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I think it is wrong if you like younger girls, because they are GIRLS, you need a woman.
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You need a women. I need a boss hyper modern female, age is but a technicality.
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flikr
if your 30 years old you shouldn't be going out with 14 year olds, if you were like 20 then yea but 30 is too old
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@: flikr
yea nobody wants a old used up girl ...young girls look better and are pure ..if they have never had sex ...no one wants used goods ..god wants us to have pure girls never been used like a pice of trash.. but gods way is always the best way ..me I like girls that have neverhad sex because they are pure in the heart and body I dont like to share...old women are used to the max and look very bad..but I would not mess whith a yong girl unless it was ok with the law....
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@: mansees
Hey now why can't you like both. Humans in this country are the most sexually repressed creatures. Two mature adults helping out freshly pubescent people by teaching them the ropes and helping them discover their bodies can and should be a wonderful experience. But nooooooooo, fucking paranoia has to be one of the driving modern agents
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okay... That's normal to like young people but to date them is... sick...
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DOES ANYONE ELSE NOT REALIZE THAT THAT'S FUCKING ILLEGAL? You don't want to be on a fucking list for the rest of your life.
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its not just illegal! its very sick!
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It's not ok and it's not legal. These girls are not old enough to legally give consent. Get help before you find yourself in prison.
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@: ronmike
So legality automatically equates to ethical or moral standing? Sound ridiculous to me.
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were animals. we have uncontrollable instincts to our forefathers, ancestors, and homo-sapien predecessors. forget the thousands and thousands of years that built you this way and just see that even 60 years ago it wasnt all that bad for a 27-30yr man to drive a 14yr old girl to a courthouse, or if needed across a state border or two and marry her.. our whole basis as men is formed by 30 year old dudes settling with a woman of probably 11-13, back when girls were hitting puberty even later..

sorry society says were wrong..
sorry 17 will get you 20..
sorry people are repressed in the land o the free.

sorry for the dudes who act better than you.. they can go fuck corpse's and procreate by test-tube if they are really that angrily against getting a nut on some young n tight..

i admit openly... do i want to fuck your hot 13yr old little sister? omg yes.. but im not a rapist.. im not gonna put in work for no little kid, and i damn sure wont risk 20yrs trying to avoid payback,being lured, or luring in a bitch just cause i wanna make her hyman bleed..
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@: dubsaks
Ya ever think that getting 20 years for pursuing something driven by biology is a bit excessive. IDK what kid of zealots run the system but sexual relationships don't automatically have to mean your looking for a life mate and teenagers are dramatically more mature than we give them credit for despite there shallow gloss.

There is no difference between a 15 y/o boy/girl or a 30 y/o man/woman who is going to us a sexual relationship to there advantage to take down someone who has jaded them. Psychopaths are psychopaths no matter how old they are.
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ewwww no your a pedo and im gonna report you to the police and get you sent to the state prison where sick people like you belong with other pedos amoung the other sick and criminals and scum that they can be with where they belong if they cant obey the the law and rules.
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well u sick bastard im gonna get the police the and then u can get face justice and if i don't and i do become a police officer or the law which i want to i will arrest you if i can and get the option and then u can face justice cuz that's part of why i want to be a police office and the law is to bring justice and to stop sick people like you
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despite what many may think,
YES, it is completely normal - although sex with minors is illegal.

if you drool over 10-year-olds, it's a completely different story.
but traditionally, around the world, 14 to 16 was a normal age for young adults to get married.
if a 15-year-old is mature enough to make his/her decisions, and have a near-fully developed body, then the only issue that remains is whatever law that may apply to you in the particular country or area you happen to be in.

anyone who say a 15-year-old is not ready for sex has either been living under a rock (and hence forgotten how a 15-year-old look these days), or possess a worped mind which allows them to somehow convince themselves that the NUMBER of someone's age, and not their ACTUAL MATURITY, rules over all logic and reason.

therefore these twisted people somehow conclude that sex with an immature 18 year old who has not gone through her period yet is perfactly ok, while sex with a mature, physically developed 16 year old is the worst thing a man (RAPIST!) can possibly do, and he is without any doubt the most horrid of our kind (and therefore the mutuality of the relationship is not even considered).

as any person of logic would agree, this is insanity.
i guess we do need some sort of a standard, however, so we still do need laws...

in any case, if the attraction is mutual, and the act is consentual, without any physical and/or mental harm to either of the party, then it is a de facto "victimless crime".

politics aside, it's really the mutuality and consentuality which is most important.
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I'm really attracted to two different girls. One is 31, the other is 15. I'm 23. I'd say most guys probably find young girls attractive but don't say it because they're afraid of being called pedos. Of course everyones tastes vary, I know most guys are really into large breasts but I find them a bit of a turnoff. I like smaller breasts and petite girls, whereas I have a few friends who are really into large women. To each his own I say, but I'd advise against pursuing relationships with young girls, it can come back to bite you. Like I said, I'm attracted to one girl I know who is only 15, and I'm pretty sure from her body language that she likes me too, but there is no way I could go for it because our families are close friends and it would become apparent there was something going on between us. Also I have to wait until she's old enough because I don't believe in premarital sex, though it is very tempting.
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Your comment stands alone from all the rest here. this is the answer the main question is looking for, and you helped me out with a problem I have. I'm 17, gunna be 18 soon, and there is a 13 year old girl who TRIES to touch me, and get me alone with her. Is it legal for me, being underaged and her being underaged to be together?
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its normal
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IT IS ILLEGAL TO HAVE SEX WITH A MINOR WHAT PART DO YOU NOT UNDERSTAND??????????????
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Charlottey11
I was 14 and I went all the way with a 12 (both girls). We did it at her house and her mum and dad were awake and we were moaning!
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You were close in age.. I'm not into the "of age" and "underage".. If you're 18 and your girlfriend is 16, no big deal. I think there should be some age limitations.. at 16+, I think girls are capable of understanding what they want. That may be shaped by previous mental or physical abuse but it's their choice. Under that, perverts are just taking advantage.
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my best friend is 22 and looooves little girls.
he would never do anything to them to hurt them but he might try to get with them. like when i was 13 he was crazy about me, since he saw me all the time because i went out with his best friend haha

i dont see much wrong with it as long as the guy isnt fucking dumb and he respects women/teens.
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Agreed completely.
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YOU WILL EMOTIONALLY RUIEN THIS GIRL'S LIFE
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I like em young too Get a hooker girl and dont be hanging around arcades
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Old enough to bleed old enough to butcher
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Disgusting
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Sounds like one hot girl
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YOURGROSS that's like freaking nasty plus ILLEGAL find someone ur own age and obviously u can't ur nasty that's not normal at all ewwwwwwwww ur a pervert
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There are plenty of older women who like young boys I can assure you of that.

Good lick to the guy, lucky fucker
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It's normal but it's illegal so stay away from arcades. You want a young girl get hooker girl and bang em and leave.
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Young girls are very sexy, but would I ever pursue anything with someone the law states as illegal?? NO i wouldnt.
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In America that is referred to as 'Gaol Bait.'
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It is not wrong to like young girls, in fact history has shown to us that young girls have been wedded off as political game.
You should know that Thomas jefferson had sexual relations with a young slave girl if that makes you feel any better.
But the thing you should worry about is if others will know about this relationship such as the girls neighbors, relatives, even people who may recognize her will cause you trouble.
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im mean im gonna be 20 in a few weeks and 19 right now but that's ok if i do it cuz im not in my 30s im only just starting my 20s but even that's not ok with the law but its better then in ur 30s im much younger and more there age.
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Depends on the age you're talking. I think 16+ is ok. As long as her mental state is ok. If she's been abused, mentally or physically, she's less capable of understanding her emotions and needing positive reinforcement, even sexually.
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Yes, it is normal and very hard to resist, however, I could resist it by taking a picture of them with their permission and masterbating to it and I'd be fine and feel free from the flesh afterwards. I mean it's not my soul that wants the feeling, it's my body. My soul needs a warm hug, my body wants a sexual feeling, and my spirit serves God all the way. I do not encourage you to continue with your actions even if they want it. My advice is for you to go to a country where it's not illegal and you should be fine.
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I'm so frustrated that everyone keeps going to the legal aspect. We should be concentrating on the devastating mental effects these young girls endure after you've had your pleasure ...
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I'm 36 years old, been with my husband for 13 years now and half a year ago I caught him watching legal porn of girls that look 12-16 and he told me that is what turns him on. We don't have sex that much and I have 2 teenage daughters (1 is his) and it bothers me everyday knowing that that is what turns him on and he is attracted to, it makes me feel very unattractive and old and used up. For some older women when they hear this it makes them feel like we are to old to be attractive anymore and are being replaced by our young girls. How would you men feel if you knew that women found young boys more attractive than you older men (like in your 30's)? If you do like it, then keep it to yourselves and keep it hidden sometimes the damage it does is too much for some to accept and bare.
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I have met plenty of women who think I am old a 30. Your feeling used up is your hand up...Chances are you hubby still loves you and simultaneously likes young girls. Ever think that people can have a multitude of interests?
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It is excessively normal from a biological standpoint. Anyone who says otherwise is some strange sort of zealot (and America is full of those). Now socially its a bit awkward because the odds of a 30 y/o and a 14-16 y/o having thing in common is relatively low (probably why people claim it is wired or perverted....people have odd obsessions conforming to things that are statistically normal or fulfilling age based roles) but thats not exactly a reason to not pursue romantic relationships with young girls. Just make sure that you are honest and the both of you are clear on what you're getting into and what your seeking.
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Some young girls don't know what they want.. due to emotional issues .. previous physical or mental abuse.. *sigh* I get so frustrated with "adult" males who can't control their darker perversions, justifying by quoting archaic actions and social agenda- that were considered socially acceptable eons ago and in sub-cultures.. We've evolved.. It's no longer acceptable to beat your wives.. stone infidelity.. but in the days that was acceptable, young marriages were acceptable. People lived in times they felt "selling" their kids was the only option.. Hence, young marriages.
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Ms_October
my my my, it seems the pedos have their own thread now...

And force against Anyone is something to wit I cannot abide. :(

But to answer your question, poster, and this may surprise a few people - But, to LIKE younger girls, in the 14-16 range is not bad (per se') in MOHO, in fact, my guess is Most of you guys like them, something about young innocence perhaps (I've never understood the facination myself, AND I thought Most guys like Large breasts, but...)

So, to LIKE something doesn't blow my circuts out.

Doing the deed, on the other hand, is where I get a little queasy. Not for any "moral" reasons (I was a little hottie from day one) but because to many guys screw around with the heart and head of a teen girl - and badly hurt her.

(Now if your desire dips into the single digits my answer would be quite different.)

Tobra - not quite full figured, but proud. :)
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Why don't you come over to my place...
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Ms_October
Sorry tiger, I'm 20.

OMB
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I'm in agreement with Ms. October. Plenty of guys like younger girls, including myself. I'm almost your age but prefer girls a bit younger than you (14-16 year old girls seem to be your favorite, but I find girls who are 12-14 the most physically and sexually appealing. Girls that age are the cutest and arouse me the most.) There is something alluring about young innocence in a girl that many guys just can't resist. There's nothing wrong with that.

To actually have sex with her though is more problematic. I don't care about the "moral reasons" either but girls that age take things pretty seriously and can be very hurt afterwards. What might seem like just sex to you might feel a lot more to her, and with an age gap that big that's all it is... a big bridge to nowhere but sex. That might be ok with you but you'd better be sure that's ok with her before you do anything.

Would I do it if I were you? I don't know, that's up to you. Have I had sex with young girls before? Sure, several times and mostly with girls younger than the ones you were talking about (they were 12 or 13 in most cases, young, curious and wiling). Would I do it again? No, because I know it didn't lead to anywhere other than just sex. It was great but they just got hurt in the long run.

If you wanted to have sex with say, a 9 year old... that's an emphatic no.
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flikr
yea your right there are plenty of guys that like younger girls

AND THEY ARE ALL FUCKING PEDOS LIKE YOU
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Budthewise
You stated: my my my, it seems the pedos have their own thread now...


I couldn't agree more and NO, I am not stocking you. I am just commenting on various threads and you often beat me to it. Honestly though, I tend to agree with you quite a bit and the line of thinking that I saw here is just wrong.

For the Author, YES YOU CAN CONTROL YOURSELF. If someone says something that angers you, it is YOUR decision to be mad and the same thing is for being a sicko pedifile. YES YOU CAN CONTROL YOURSELF AND TO SAY YOU CANNOT JUST TAKES POWER FROM YOU TO DO WHAT IS RIGHT. Lastly, do you really think a judge will be nice to you if you state you cannot control yourself? Of course not.
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No paedos here just realists.

Stupid fuckers
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OOPS I SPELT RUIN WRONG
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lolita
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I find it hard to belive anyone in their 30`s would still use the term "fingerd" haha... ah the good old days, "i fingerd her behind the bike shed" "how many fingers did you get up" etc.....
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Fucking lol
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i think its wrong and you should see help but if u dont get caught go for it haha
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