Alright so I've been with my bf for the past 2 and a half years, we've known eachother for over 10 years, shared the same entorage, he's only ever dated white girls before me. I'm Hindu and so is he and I guess he was all for " brown girls are crazy drama freeks", but that shouldn't be categorized like that because there are many different races of girls who are like that because of more hormones than others lol. Anyways so the thing is that even at the start of our relationship sex was only happening maybe once every 2 weeks or once a month. And everytime ive asked him he said he likes to keep things fresh. And then he came to a point where he lost his job, wasn't working for a year, his dad was in the hospital for awhile for heart complications and for a year it only happend once a month... He said he had to drive cuz he was super stressed and down about his life and situation. It kinda got better but now we been living together for the past year and everytime I try to start up things to have sex, he shuts me down at least 2-3 nights a week and says he's too tired or he ate too much, and we do it maybe once a week maybe longer. And I been doubting myself thinking I'm ugly but I still turn heads, and it's not like our sex life is played out because we haven't tried majority of things yet... And I've got moves!!! But I don't get him... Could he be not as attracted to me because I am brown and his preference is white girls? IIN?