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Is my boyfriend Gay????
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My boyfriend comes across as gay and I'm starting to wonder if maybe he is but he doesn't know yet. There is a particular feminine way he stands which puts me off and the way he's hands are postured(you know the downward steriotypical gay hands).

Sometimes when we are messing about I might tell him as a joke I'm having a lesbian affair with my best friend(you now how girls hug all the time etc) then he would answer back that he is having a gay affair with he's best friend, I find his SO disturbing.

I know all guys are different but no guy I have ever known suggests gay 'fantasies' even as jokes, and one of my best guy friends who is homophobic said he would have thought my bf was gay if he didn't go out with me.

Firstly I want to know if its normal for a boy to make gay jokes like that and secondly is there any chance he is with me to prove to himself and he's friends he is straight?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (15)
BigRedOne (22853)
2009-05-25 17:14:15
Sounds like the little fella may be a pee pee puffer.
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bookworm006 (23351)
2009-05-25 20:08:50
I think hes as non queer as a 3 $$ bill
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smeagolxx (24102)
2009-06-19 23:11:38
guys have called other guys "gay" ever since the word "gay" was invented, and one of the best defenses against a gay joke is to play along with it, guys like gay jokes on par with fat jokes & yo mama jokes... it's perfectly normal and will probably continue to happen till the end of time
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carib_kid (25063)
2009-07-04 21:44:41
if your asking he probably is. but yes guys make gay jokes ALL the time. its the best way to get everyone to laugh (although it is a bit insensitive). i mean there goes the dbl standard if you can make gay jokes and he cant. sounds hypocritical and the relationship is doomed already if this bothers you.
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Ollieo (19003)
2009-07-27 06:11:31
Do you think maybe you are playing head games a bit too much? I mean you joke about being gay and its OK - he reciprocates and it means something else. Also - why is this (sexual orientation) a joke? It isn't very mature or respectful.
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AngelOfDeath (26859)
2009-08-09 08:46:57
no straight guy should act gay at all, unless they have suffered sever brain trauma, but that is the only excuse
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Nightwish27 (26835)
2009-08-09 16:21:20
Just because a guy makes gay jokes or jokes about being gay with someone doesent mean they are, me and my mates always make jokes like that when we are at school, and i can assure you, i am completely straight. you have nothing to worry about!
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XxgemdinxX (27048)
2009-08-13 20:44:39
Well, it could possibly be that he is (i think this is the word) heterosexual. And as far as making jokes? It's normal. But if you really are unsure, ask if he is gay.
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TonyM (27972)
2009-09-03 04:56:23
lol why guy hasnt made gay jokes about themselfes and friends? thats normal as fuck.. but if you think hes gay.. he IS gay. its just how shit goes. (ive got a friend that tries to make me think hes not gay)
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CholenaxxBabii (28172)
2009-09-06 18:22:32
You know i kinda wondered that about my Ex, cause he had this INTENSE OBSESSION with anal sex... i mean i did it, but after a while it got annoying, cause thats all he wanted to do.. and sometimes he was really feminime.. idkkk.
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Chunky_Chips (21173)
2009-09-28 12:01:10
I'm a girl, and I love the femininity of gay dudes, I just think their fashion sense and posture is so sexy. You're so lucky!!! But I couldn't imagine sex with a gay dude. That would be a bit weird. :S
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redcomb (29926)
2009-10-20 18:05:47
being Gay means BEING a homosexual. And BEING a homosexual means actually HAVING sex with someone of the same gender.
Wanting to have sex with someone of the same gender doesn't MAKE YOU GAY. Just like WANTING to kill someone doesn't make you a murderer.
We are what we do, not what we think.
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dorky (30214)
2009-10-23 08:13:56
Ok, well did you know that almost every girl goes through a stage in their relationship in which they wonder if their boyfriend is gay? If he's with you and not with a boy you should not worry too much about it ;)
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theRUSSIAN (31013)
2009-11-15 11:03:09
aboutthe gay joks i thing its not normal but maybe he is only joking just like you do when you joke with him about the lesbian sex ,,

if you wanna know about him if he is gay or not just make love with him then you can know make love not seXXXXXXX love, and watch where he is going and with who but do not let him know that ur watching im ok..
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theRUSSIAN (31013)
2009-11-15 11:03:41
and hey i wanna ask you why all girl love lesbian seX ?? and it is normal to them to make sex !! gross !!
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