is my girlfriend crazy?

20% Normal

51 Comments

not normal

what the hell is a nappie?

A diaper.

I dont think your girlfriend is crazy. Instead of thinking she is crazy you should be supporting her. Its not sick or freaky. I am like that too. It all started when I was about 15 years old. I just starded out wearing daipers. I dont really know why I started wearing them, I guess it was because I pee myself and when I did it in public I used to get a lot of ridicule about it. I thought that wearing them would still allow me to do it with out geting noticed. I got more and more into it and before I know it, I was playing with toys and dressing/acting like a kid. I saw a doctor about it because I knew it wasnt 'normal' at 21 to still be acting like this. I got passed on to a doctor who went right into my past. He told me that it could be linked to something that happened when I was a kid. The doctor told me that I could be trying to relive my childhood and this is how it is coming out. I dont know if this is true. I also live with my partner of 3 years. He supports me and actually finds it quite ok. We were friends before we started dating and he always knew about my secret so it wasnt a shock when we got close. He changes my daipers and plays games with me and looks after me like a 'father' should. We dont see each other as a father and daughter, we still do 'normal' things too like go see a movie, It just so happens that we are closer on a different level. We have a good physical relationship too. He quite likes it. He also came with me to see my doctor as he though he might have a problem. The doctor told us that it was perfectly normal and that its nothing to feel bad about. It just shows that he really loves me. Its nice to have some one there that you can trust with something like this. I dont know what I would do if I didnt have him to help me through. I guess it is hard for him, and yourself, to try and understand what we are going through. Im sure your girlfriend just wants to be accepted as who she is. I was told that I may 'grow' out of it, I dont think I will as I am totally fine with the way I am now and have never been more happy. Your girlfriend is not the only person who lives her life like this, although there are not many of us around. We are all really special people and I think its about time people took time to understand how we feel instead of making us feel like outcasts.I hope this has helped you to see how us little girls work!

Thanks for that you have been a great help. ive had a good luck on the internet and i think i understand it a bit better now. i just worry about what people might think. to be honest i think its quite cute and i really do love her to bits and except her. it just feels a bit weird having to look after a little girl and change her. thanks again, write bk j

oh. lol

Hey, I'm pleased you found it helpful. You can ask me anything about it, I just want more people to understand things from our perspective! I'm glad you think it is cute! You know, you should tell your partner if you are not comfortable with changing her. I know I would rather Tom told me if he didnt want to do it any more. Have you talked to her about why she does it? Dont be anxious if she doesnt want to talk about it, it took me a long time to be completely open about it with my close ones. Now I really dont give a hoot about what people say when I'm not there! This is me and I live my life the way I want to!
:)

would it be ok if we spoke about it privetly? just id rather not broadcast details about it to every1.

and im so gratful for you taking the time to help me out :)

Take a fat crap in your girlfriends lap while shes talking on the phone. Then roll it around in her lap and make a sandcastle out of kitty litter and human phecies

Weirdo, but hey do you still love her? If the answer is yes, then accept her. It's obvious that she was doing this long before she met you and will continue to do so even if you are in the picture or not.

No she is not a weirdo but the other stuff you said is true! He obviousley has accepted her or he wouldnt still be with her after a year. I wish people could just accept that there are pople who wear daipers and play with toys, who are a bit older than they should be, out there! We are not animals...far from it! All we want is a hug and some one to take care of us! Does that make us some kind of evil monters!?

Jimi2006, did you get my e-mail address okay?

that was adorable!!!...and sexy...

a little girl huh......=]

your girlfriends weird and its not normal

i dont think shes weird hun, however maybe a little abnormal. i just wanted to know why she does it thats all. btw about ur comment on the other post, i think you should maybe wait a little wile before you do anything like that. ur only 13, plenty of time for it later on.

thats disgusting. NOT NORMAL

do you take a dump in your diapers too?

Nobody asked ur opinion a**hole! I asked if anyone knowes why she does it! go f**k yr mother!

why the f**k would you want to ask that? pervert!!!!!

were you repeated raped by your grandmother as a small child? just curious.

you really are very sick! maybe you should seek some help and get the f**k off this site!

you should get off this site dillrod. you're the one who hangs with girls who wear dirty diapers not me.

hahahahahahaha! you are a sad f**king low life who spends all day on a f**king internet site about people who want to know is they are normal or not so you can talk! i just thought it would be good fun to give you abouse and make your life even worse than what it already is lololol! i bet you havnt even got a job or nothing! iv got my own bussiness and i make a f**king fortune and have loads and loads of friends! so f**k you! btw i like you realy just thought id have a bit of fun!

you sound like you're about what? 15? does your mommy know you're getting into sh*t with people on the internet?

lol :)

She's 20 and she wears diapers? I'm 30 and I wear mine! :) For pleasure, not business (not incontinent). Your girlfriend didn't invent this, so don't sweat it.

Anyway, congrats on the new baby girl. :P

that is f**ked up. your girlfriends a dirty hoe man, you should just stick it in her ass and gtfo

OH f**kING SICK

Wait.. Actually that's pretty hot

hahaha. i'm so glad i stumbled upon this... whoo!!! but seriously man that's f**ked up. she's definitely at the age where she should be using the potty like all the other big kids.

Damn, I didn't think there were any smart people left until I read what you put. I was looking at everyone else's stupid comments(didn't even bother completely reading most) but thne I came across yours and had to read the entire thing. I think you gave some pretty could advice.

In my opinion.... its not normal.

Well, it isn't considered normal, but it's definitely a fetish. Lots of people have fetishes and can't help it. I have a fetish myself, and while it doesn't involve diapers (or nappies), it does involve "ageplay", which sounds like something your girlfriend must be into.

Ageplay is a type of roleplay where someone likes to pretend they are younger than they actually are, and it usually involves a partner to play with and to take care of them, like a mommy or daddy would. Ageplayers who prefer to be babies and wear diapers are call themselves AB/DL (adult baby/diaper lover).

A lot of "normal" people consider this sick, because their minds tend to relate it to pedophilia, which is not at all the case. Ageplay is a consensual practice between two adults, and no actual children are ever involved or desired.

Most ageplay couples tie this into their sex lives. It may or may not be sexual for your girlfriend. She might consider it a type of therapy, like reliving her childhood. For some, it may be a combination of both. After all, obsessive fetishes can subconsciously stick to a child's mind in their developmental stages and manifest themselves in later years.

Anyways, hope this was helpful. And kudos to you for keeping an open mind and sticking with your girl. To me, it was a beautiful thing when I found a partner who accepted, enjoyed, and even shared my fetish. I can only imagine how happy you've made your girlfriend. You sound like a swell guy! ^_^

To me this sounds like a deep-seeded childhood problem that was never dealt with properly. I think a counselor who has experience with this type of thing would be your best bet. It is NOT normal to wear a diaper and act like a child because diapers, dolls etc.. are not even a part of normal human instinct.

I understand FULLY that you should be there for her and help her through this, but enabling that behavior by thinking it's "cute" and changing her diapers is most certainly only going to compound and make the problem worse. Imagine if you have kids together and your kid comes to the age of understanding and sees this, what do you think they are going to think? Put simply, NEVER do anything you are ashamed of and if it's something that you wouldn't tell somebody, then clearly you are ashamed of it.

Honestly, I am CERTAIN that this is probably a type of mental condition/disorder, you just need to look into it rather than foster it. Just my suggestion, not trying to be mean or anything, but if you REALLY want to help her then you CANNOT aid it along or it will only get worse. Might be interesting and different for a while, but it will get old after a while as well.

if you love her, accept her for who she is. Wearing nappie is not something that is too hard to accept. She behaving like a girl could be what that attracted you :)

If she is that into being like a little girl/baby, then why would she want a boyfriend?

I mean....uhh if you love her then it shouldn't matter.

But i'm just saying that I don't think that's normal..

Hope everything works out for you though

ummm this scares me very much im sorry just sounds effed up to me to change sumones diaper and act like a father to them then have sex and what not.. ick

I don't know why she does, but i do know that (my mom is a sped teacher) there is a form of metal retardation/defect that causes people to, basically, go backwards, and it doesn't appear at a certain age, my mom and her co-worker, have just started noticing it in a student. The person basically De-ages they lose skills, they, in a way, are like The Curious Case of Benjamin Button (they don't look any younger though) but the act younger, and lose such things as motor skills, etc. over time.
I don't know what is up with your girlfriend, but she might have some sort of variation on the theme, i really don't know the details, you might want to suggest a visit to the wise old doc

Aww,
This Sounds Normal Too Me,
And Cute,
Sounds Like A Keeper
%u2665

This sounds normal to you? Assuming that normality would mean the majority of people piss themselves, but wear diapers to prevent "embarrassment" is highly unlikely.

Your girlfriend is sick, and it may stem from a traumatic childhood event. It could be a number of events which caused her to revert to these child-like symptoms, from physical abuse as a child to an overbearing parent who ridiculed her for tinkling herself.

The answer to your question depends on how your relationship will continue despite her oddities. If you don't mind changing her diaper and putting her in timeout, then there is no problem. As long as she is able to function in other aspects of her life and the two of you are happy then piss away.

If, however, she is unable to function normally and you feel she may harm herself I would suggest professional (not internet) help.

Everyone is strange and confused, and the way we react to life's challenges varies. There are many, many worse afflictions than your girlfriend's and if you're concerned with her behavior be honest and direct with her. Good luck, and tell her to use cloth diapers; they're better for the environment.

Its pretty normal!That "Case of Benjamin whoever" is probably based on a disease where you're brain loses as you get older.Why my cousin works with a woman who was bitten by a mosquito and caught a disease.Now she is 20 and acts 5.Her workfriends have to take her to the bathroom.She sings Nursery Rymes.I felt bad for her but its normal

i bet you feel like a pervert because you have to change her and youre going out with some one who acts like a baby so you must like babyish people you little pervert:)

I think it's normal!

actually for your info, she wasnt like that wen we started dating! we arnt together anymote either. we had a few arguments about stuff and i cudnt reli cope anymore so we split up! she seems to have sorted herself out now tho and she is with sum1 she was with b4 me! wonder if he will put up with her sh*t?? lol

hey, that could get pretty hot, If you guys have sex. I mean, honestly, I have never heard of anything like this, but my sister is mental and she acts, childish, tantrums and stuff. But whatever it is you have, I can see how that would be cute:) Also, ask your husband how he'd feel about makeing sex a little.. kinky-er.

That's a fetish dude, does she ask you to play along? That sort of thing is common for people who want to trust others and let them take control. If you don't like it try going to therapy or see if there's something else you'd both be comfortable with.

Change her diapers, love her and embrace the experience. Ignore smallminded people.

Reading through this whole post is hilarious especially between jimi and poolboy. But in all honesty, I don't think there's many older people who are not disabled who wear nappies. This is not normal, assuming that normal means what is mainstream.

Did she poop and wee in her nappy too? And you cleaned it up?

that's umm... weird. and gross. on both counts, for her doing it and you enabling it. lol

she's retarded