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Is my girlfriend crazy?
Shes 20 and she thinks its normal to wear nappies and play with dolls. we have been going out for a couple of years and lived together a year. i only got to know about this when we moved in together. at first she wasnt as bad and i turned a blind eye to it. but now its becoming more obvious and she wears nappies all of the time. she also tryes to act like a little girl. does anybody know why she does this?
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Jimi2006, did you get my e-mail address okay?
Anyway, congrats on the new baby girl. :P
Wait.. Actually that's pretty hot
Ageplay is a type of roleplay where someone likes to pretend they are younger than they actually are, and it usually involves a partner to play with and to take care of them, like a mommy or daddy would. Ageplayers who prefer to be babies and wear diapers are call themselves AB/DL (adult baby/diaper lover).
A lot of "normal" people consider this sick, because their minds tend to relate it to pedophilia, which is not at all the case. Ageplay is a consensual practice between two adults, and no actual children are ever involved or desired.
Most ageplay couples tie this into their sex lives. It may or may not be sexual for your girlfriend. She might consider it a type of therapy, like reliving her childhood. For some, it may be a combination of both. After all, obsessive fetishes can subconsciously stick to a child's mind in their developmental stages and manifest themselves in later years.
Anyways, hope this was helpful. And kudos to you for keeping an open mind and sticking with your girl. To me, it was a beautiful thing when I found a partner who accepted, enjoyed, and even shared my fetish. I can only imagine how happy you've made your girlfriend. You sound like a swell guy! ^_^
I understand FULLY that you should be there for her and help her through this, but enabling that behavior by thinking it's "cute" and changing her diapers is most certainly only going to compound and make the problem worse. Imagine if you have kids together and your kid comes to the age of understanding and sees this, what do you think they are going to think? Put simply, NEVER do anything you are ashamed of and if it's something that you wouldn't tell somebody, then clearly you are ashamed of it.
Honestly, I am CERTAIN that this is probably a type of mental condition/disorder, you just need to look into it rather than foster it. Just my suggestion, not trying to be mean or anything, but if you REALLY want to help her then you CANNOT aid it along or it will only get worse. Might be interesting and different for a while, but it will get old after a while as well.
But i'm just saying that I don't think that's normal..
Hope everything works out for you though
I don't know what is up with your girlfriend, but she might have some sort of variation on the theme, i really don't know the details, you might want to suggest a visit to the wise old doc
This Sounds Normal Too Me,
And Cute,
Sounds Like A Keeper
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Your girlfriend is sick, and it may stem from a traumatic childhood event. It could be a number of events which caused her to revert to these child-like symptoms, from physical abuse as a child to an overbearing parent who ridiculed her for tinkling herself.
The answer to your question depends on how your relationship will continue despite her oddities. If you don't mind changing her diaper and putting her in timeout, then there is no problem. As long as she is able to function in other aspects of her life and the two of you are happy then piss away.
If, however, she is unable to function normally and you feel she may harm herself I would suggest professional (not internet) help.
Everyone is strange and confused, and the way we react to life's challenges varies. There are many, many worse afflictions than your girlfriend's and if you're concerned with her behavior be honest and direct with her. Good luck, and tell her to use cloth diapers; they're better for the environment.
Did she poop and wee in her nappy too? And you cleaned it up?
Also, i agree with sally, it could be a way of reliving her childhood (maybe they were the happiest times for her, or because something was abusive about it and she wants to relive it differently).
Good luck. it's nothing to be afraid of.
but to be honest, people do much more fucked up things than that. let this slide if it keeps her happy.