Okay well there's this guy that I'll call "Bob". We only talk online and never in person. We have met in person but that was monthes ago. Bob has asked me out a few times but every time he backed out...We have done sexual stuff online before and we flirt and stuff. We make it very clear how much we like each other. All I want is for this to be more solid and real. I want to be able to hang out with him in person and actually date him. We aren't boy friend/girlfriend but we act like we are. We're both teenagers and he's a couple years older then me so he wants to keep this whole thing a secret...I'm not very happy about that as much as I understand it. I think I might be in love with Bob and he's driving me crazy! Is what we have normal? What should I do about it? My friend keeps saying that I have to break it off but I can't.